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~NatB~

Hey I wonder if the Contageous Baby dust will carry on into this thread. lol

 

Make sure you smile today,

Natalie

 

DS#1 Ryan 23/10/2000

DS#2 Liam 22/3/2003

DS#3 Conor 28/10/2004

Surprise #4 due 27/5/06

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Guest happyhearts

Why is it that some days you feel like you could have 10 kids and other days you wonder what on earth possessed you to have even just one? Aaaaargh!!!! I'm trying to keep smiling but gee it's hard today!

 

Happy Hearts

Mummy to:

Brienna 14/11/01

Chiara 23/06/03

Caleb 06/09/05

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Rachxox

Happyhearts, I can relate. Some days I can't imagine adding another baby to our family and then other days, I couldn't imagine not adding another baby to our family LOL.

 

Girls I think I am back on the yes to #4 side of the fence again. I think after having the whole family sick for nearly 4-5 weeks (by the time it spread through everyone), my dh and I were over it and couldn't possibly imagine life with another baby, but now we are all back to normal and into the full swing of things again, life is back to normal LOL. We will be looking at TTC March next year. I am very excited, but can't believe what a roller coaster of emotions this past few months have been on whether or not to have #4. I'm certainly not looking forward to the tiredness, the morning sickness, the added scariness each pregnancy seems to bring, but I can't wait to have another baby LOL.

 

How is everyone else doing.

 

Rachael and her 3 little princesses

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~Fuzjuz~

I'm doing okay Rach, thanks for asking. :)

 

As you can see by message under my user name, still holding out hope. :p His tooing & froing is still driving me :wacko:

 

TTFN Ladies. :D

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blue♥pink

Hello :)

Was wondering if I could join in?

Lately I have been thinking one more would be great but some days I dont think I could do it all again!

I have two girls aged 4 and a half and 2.4years and a little boy 14.5 months. I guess I feel like I have missed out somewhere along the way having my last two close together. Feels like I was too tired to enjoy my daughters baby stage and too busy to enjoy DS. Now they are toddlers I feel like something is missing....

Hope I have made sense!

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StarlightAngel

Go Rach!!!! How exciting planning another little person!! I am halfway today, ignore my sig, they changed my date and I can't remember my login to change my ticker thingy.... Feels like I am on a downward slide now, into the land of sore back and just about everything else but getting closer to seeing our little man!!! Yes, after much guessing and wondering we found out we are expecting a boy much to my surprise. So 2 of each it is for us much to DS1's delight. Sonographer was very sure and showed us the little bit to reassure DH! :lol: Anyhow better go and save my nappies from the rain...

 

Stella

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Honeyblonde

Hello girls!

Remember me, the silly one who started this topic ages ago and is now accidentally pregnant with #4 LOL :)

I cant believe how many of us have gotten pregnant in the last few months! It's getting quite weird, we should do a list of the original members and how many of us are now pregnant!

 

Rach Wow after reading your previous post about a NO tp #4, and now you have changed back to a YES!! Good on you for being back on the fence, LOL how are those splinters!?

Hope you come to a decision soon, or maybe the decision will be made for you if you spend too much time in this thread, LOL!

 

Juzzy Maybe the new year will bring a definite yes fpr you from DH!! Good luck!

 

Sa*Ma*Dy Welcome to the yes/no/yes/no rollercoaster!

Have fun deciding, I didnt get the choice in the end!!

But bubs is well and truly on its way now so its a 7 seater car for us!

 

Well, better go, tummy is still a bit icky, Im now 14 weeks so it better start improving from now on. I have "popped out", my tummy looks about 5 mths pregnant already, LOL!

 

Edited to add: Stella you must have posted while I was typing, wow, congrats on 2 pigoen pairs, bet your DS is rapt! Lets hope I am the same, but with the opposite sex, my DD is dying for a sister! I have 2 boys already so it would be nice to have the 2 girls as well. Hope all is well, try and rest as much as possible (yeah I know, impossible but, try anyway!)

 

 

Take care

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Rachaelxxx

Thanks girls, I think I will be remembered as the girls who changed her mind so many times, I don't think anyone will believe me until I do actually fall pregnant. I just started a thread asking for advice on how things changed going from 3 to 4 because I've heard a few different opinions in the last few weeks, so I thought I would ask the experts :D .

 

Honeyblonde, isn't it funny to think that it doesn't feel that long ago you started this thread and yes so many of you have fallen pregnant. I think it's wonderful and look at it this way, at least the decision was made for you.

 

Stella congratulations to you and your family on the news of your new little man, how exciting and 2 of each is gorgeous. It evens things out :lol: .

 

L.A. Babe I agree with the writing, one thing I do love is that it brings up the last 10 posts, that makes it so much easier to do personals.

 

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Eizzor

Hello Girls,hope you dont mind if l just jump in here.My dh is very keen to have #4 he,s so clucky :p But after having hyperemesis gravidarum l,m not as keen.

#1 and #2 are so close, then big gap before #3 so it would be so nice for him to have a playmate,but l just cant decide :wacko:

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furmum

:D:D:D hi everyone it's FURMUM.....FANTASTIC to hear all this good news!!!! rachael-GO FOR IT !!!! honeyblonde-how are you doing???? AM SO HAPPY FOR U & to everyone else who's expecting- i wish you all the best !!! yes, it's amazing from when this thread started, how many have fallen pregger's-it's great !!! P L E A S E, i beg you all to blow me some of the dust that's needed to fall pregnant!!! we aren't trying at all-as some of you may remember i'm the one with the hubby that doesn't want to know!! please, this is my last chance to have another as i dont want any more than a 5 year gap between my #3 (who's just turned 4) & a possible #4 !!! by the time i have it, #3 will be 5 next september! & i'll be 34 next year-i dont want to have anymore after that.

i think putting up a thread of everyone that originally started here & everyone else of course & letting us know who has fallen pregnant since-is a brilliant idea!

hope you are all well !!!!! rachael i have replied to your other thread about going from #3 to #4-great topic!!!

 

take care everyone-remember to send some baby fertilising dust this way.....thanks.........

 

FURMUM.............

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~Sorceress~

I haven't been posting much because I'm - wait for it! - back on the fence about #5. I was 5 days late and very happy to think we might've had another "accident", but AF arrived and I had a chat with dh. He had some really compelling points about why it wasn't a great idea.

 

So, while I'd be very happy if we had another accident, I'm not going to go looking for a while.

 

I *like* being able to spend time with Jessica without feeling tired or nauseous or having to rush off and settle another baby. And now that she's 15 months, she's not going to get a close-aged sibling anyway, so I may as well wait until I'd have time to really enjoy another newborn. Oh, and I'm not keen on tandem feeding again, but don't want to wean Jessica yet, so waiting another 12 months would have that advantage too.

 

But, hey, I'm still posting here...

 

Glad to hear your news, Furmum - when I saw your "Guess what" topic, I thought you'd already hit the baby dust!

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furmum

:unsure: [/b] WHERE IS EVERYONE ??????

 

 

Hope everyone is well!! (dont know if i've turned the "bold" off or not??) - i'll find out once i post this post!

 

anyway, have had another talk with hubby about #4, & he has told me it is a very serious descision to make, one he needs to think about. he said he'll give me his answer on NEW YEARS EVE !!!! well, you can imagine that the next 15 days are going to go SOOOOOO SLOW for me !!!!!

he said he's leaning more towards a yes-but i'll just have to wait !!!!

 

:o:o:o

 

i've just got a little bit of spare time at the moment as my kids dont break up from school until next thursday (we are in sydney), then they go back jan 31st.

like i said in my GUESS WHAT? post, now that hubby MIGHT be giving me the go ahead for #4, i'm all scared & confused! can you believe it??? i'm frightened of going all through it again & worrying whether i'll cope or not etc. etc.

 

anyway, have a good day..........

 

 

FURMUM............

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furmum

:D:rolleyes::p HI GUYS, how's everyone ????

 

well, i guess i just better stay on here then even if it means me talking to myself !!!!! so that i can catch the pregnancy fever & baby dust !!!!!!

 

anyway, have a great weekend girls........

 

FURMUM............

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~Fuzjuz~

Hi Everyone :)

 

Just thought I'd pop in & see who else is pregnant. :p No one by the looks of it. :)

 

Furmum, welcome back. :D I'm like you, I don't know what I'll do if DH says lets have another! :blink: I'd be excited, anxious, scared & many other emotions all in one. Ahh, the tooing & frowing! :(

 

Enough from me, take care everyone & hope you all have a fabulous xmas & all your dreams come true in 2006. :D

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happyhearts

We are still having "discussions". DH is actually keen for a 4th but has very different ideas than me about when we "go again". I would love to TTC within the next 12 months but he is thinking more like in about 3 years time! :( He is worried about having to get a new car - I would be happy with an older model Tarago or 4WD but he wants something fairly new which of course means MONEY! I don't want to spend a lot of money on a car that the kids will throw up in, grind biscuits in, spill drinks in etc.

 

Ooops gotta go - DD#2 has just sunk her fangs into DD#1. Anyone got a sure-fire cure for stopping biting - it's driving me crazy!

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Kaohmie

I know that I have been MIA from this thread for a long time - but thought that I would pop in and say that our fourth child arrived safely and soundly and has slotted in to the family beautifully.

 

We upgraded to a people mover - but apart from that - life here is sort of normal (back to the night feeds - but hey . . . what is new about that?! LOL :D )

 

I mentioned in another thread that although #4 was completely unplanned and unexpected - I must be crazy - but I'm already thinking of #5!!!! :blink:

 

I hope everyone has a great Christmas and that the negotiations go smoothly!! ;)

 

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KristyMum-

Oh Kaohmie

 

 

CONGRATULATIONS!

 

Fantastic news and great to hear that everything is going well... see ladies... it CAN be done... ;) ...

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~Sorceress~

Congratulations, Kaohmie!

 

I'm still hanging around lurking. Having been overcome by dh's logical reasons for not having #5, I was a little low for a while, but I'm now well back on the clucky wagon and hope eventually he'll join me - an 11 seater car might make it more enticing for him! I have high hopes for the new Kia!

 

:lol:

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crockerml

Hi,

 

Congratulations Kaohmie on your new addition. I recently had my fifth baby (she is 7 weeks old) and I am already planning number 6 with my husband's approval. It will not be until Feb 07 so my body can recover from this baby. I have already told my obstetrician that I am planning another baby and he accepted it like he knew I would be back.

 

Michele

Mother of Christopher, Luke, Melissa, Jayden and Ashleigh(7 weeks)

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Eizzor

Hi everyone hope you all had a very merry christmas.Well all this christmas cheer must be getting to me hubby has almost convinced me in to #4 and l must say he,s very pleased with his persistant nagging,lol.(morning sickness is still spooking me) and the thought of shopping for a new car isnt to appealing either.

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JaneMcG

Hi everyone. Merry Christmas! I hope you have all had a little you time. I have been MIA for about 6 weeks and a lot seems to have changed around here. Well, the site for starters, but good to see some are still on the fence B) and those of you who have fallen off are getting larger in a very beautiful way.

We have had the most hectic time I think I've ever had in my life. Two weeks b4 we moved house dh got chicken pox. So I did most of the packing in those weeks. Then the day we moved I discovered I had chicken pox. I thought I was just run down from all the packing! I collapsed at my mums for two weeks ( no internet sob, sob) then discovered my dd2 had chicken pox. Poor baby. She is now recovering and on the 23rd we moved into the house we're renting for 6 months until our new house is built. Still waiting to see if the other two will get 'the pox' but hopefully not.

So, we've had our sea change and we are loving it!! Okay, so we've only been here 4 days but it's fantastic. A 5 minute walk to the beach.

I can honestly say that I am over having #4. Well, 99.9% sure. I'm ready to move on to the next stage of my life. So, I may occasionally drop in cos I love this part of the site, but just wanted to drop in and see how you're all doing. Good luck with all the decision making, and big bellies

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JuliaGulia

Hi girls

 

Yes, I am alive and well, although for a few weeks there I wasn't sure. Hyperemesis took over my life, so I had to give EB a miss (along with food, happiness, etc).

 

Congratulations to Kaohmie on your new addition, and big hugs to Lara for your new pg (I know, I am very overdue).

 

Furmum, I can't believe you're back, but am secretly (or not so) very pleased to see you.

 

Still trying to negotiate the new site ;)

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radmama

Another MIA returning. I hope it's true that hanging out here makes your pregnant!

 

I'm still so clucky :) If I fell preg next cycle I'd be 40 when the baby was born. That's scaring me. Normally I don't care what other people think but I can just imagine the comments and gossip :rolleyes: My youngest will be 7 in Feb!

 

My dh says he is giving up smoking on the 1st so I think I should start working on him!

 

Congrats to those who have thown caution to the wind and are pregnant!

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~Fuzjuz~

Lurk, lurk, lurk. :)

 

Looks like only a few of us left.

 

Hope 2006 is a YES from Dh for all of us fence sitters. :)

 

I think my Dh is coming around. :):o Bring on this time next year.

 

TTFN.

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