Pregnancy

Stay at home Mum does NOT equal servant!

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Justine Davies Belinda wants some tips on how to stop her friends treating her like a doormat.

How do you create the ideal work/life balance?

Working mum

Justine Davies Just Ask Justine: JD wants some tips on how to combine work and children and keep everyone happy.

Scared of adoption

Adoption

Justine Davies How important is biology? Does it really make a difference to the way that you bond with your baby?

Help! My friend feeds my kid junk

Calorie conscious parenting

Justine Davies I sometimes take my daughter to McDonalds – but when I do it’s a treat. I don’t want her eating fast food for lunch twice a week.

Who's best for families - Labor or Liberal?

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Justine Davies If I have a baby next year will I be financially better off by voting for Kevin Rudd or Tony Abbott?

I’m too scared to have IVF – help!

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Justine Davies DH and I have one child and we have been trying to fall pregnant again for the last three years. We’ve run through the series of “natural” therapies such as acupuncture, diet, herbal additives and so on and now we are looking down the barrel of giving IVF a go.

Co-sleeping with baby – and dog?

Baby and dog

Justine Davies My husband and I are expecting our first baby in a couple of months. We are going to co-sleep with her for at least the first six months as I believe that is the most natural and best way for her to feel safe and to bond with us. However our beloved family dog also sleeps on our bed. What should we do?

I don't trust my friend's husband

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Justine Davies My daughter is eight and one of her best little friends at school lives just a few streets away and often comes over to our house after school for a play. The friend’s mother is lovely too and often invites my daughter over to their house to play as well. I do let her go sometimes, but often find myself making excuses, because for some unexplainable reason I just don’t trust her husband. What should I do?

I want my kids to be vegetarian

Vegetarian kids

Justine Davies I have recently decided to become a vegetarian (ethical reasons, not health). I’ve been unhappy about the whole eating meat thing for a while now so it’s a decision that I’m very comfortable with. Ideally I’d like my whole family to become vegetarian as well, but my husband won’t have a bar of it. What do I do?

How to get rid of an unwanted "friend"

Breaking up with a friend is hard

Justine Davies A friend from daycare is treating me like an unpaid nanny for her son. How do I get her to back off without being nasty?

We don't want kids at our party

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Justine Davies DH's 40th birthday party will be dressy, catered formal party. We sent out the invites with a “no children” request, but my friend is really offended.

Public or Private Hospital for the birth: WDYT?

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Justine Davies I could be several thousand dollars out of pocket by going private – money that I could otherwise use for my maternity leave. Is it really worth that cost or should I think about going public instead?

Piercing my three-year-old's ears?

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Justine Davies Apart from the risk of infection, which is a risk at any age, there is also a higher risk with young children that they could tear their earlobe.

Is 22 too young to be a Mum?

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Justine Davies DH isn’t sure. He thinks we should buy a house first and he also worries that none of our friends have kids yet or are probably even close to starting a family.

Private to public: should my son change schools?

Save money preparing your child for school

Justine Davies DH says if he wants to go to the public school he can, but I’m resisting the idea. Not that the state school is bad, but I think that he’d get a better education at the private school.

Should I hire a nanny or a 'manny'?

Video games

Justine Davies My issue is that out of the potential nannies that I’ve interviewed, the one that I like the most is a male! I don’t know whether having a “Manny” is a good idea?

Sex, Birth & Videotape

Orgasmic birth

Justine Davies My hubby recently bought a new digital video recorder so that we can record our daughter’s development over the years on film. All good. He’s now decided though that he also wants to videotape the birth.

Eeeek – I don't want their son living with us!

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Justine Davies A couple of months ago friends asked us if we would be guardian for their son if something happened to them

I’m a single mum with a new boyfriend. Should I let him sleep over?

Sex after baby

Justine Davies It’s a tricky predicament – the roles of sex goddess and Mum aren’t all that easy to combine.

I'm 'accidentally' pregnant

Are you trying to conceive?

Justine Davies I have a problem that I hope your members can help me with. I guess you could call it a “miscommunication” – and now I don’t know what to do.

More of Justine Davies' blogs

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From the men

I don't find my wife sexy anymore

The an unexpected side-effect of having our daughter though is that it has killed my sexual desire for my wife – something which neither of us can really understand.

Can you convince me to breastfeed?

Justine Davies I would love to know if there are any others who dreaded breastfeeding beforehand but who found it not too bad – or even nice!

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Is it permissible to breastfeed a friend's baby?

Justine Davies A few weeks ago my friend left her daughter with me for an hour while she went to the supermarket. Almost as soon as she left her daughter woke up and was obviously hungry, so I breastfed her.

Should I get breast implants?

Justine Davies Did your body undergo significant change as a result of pregnancy and breastfeeding? Would you consider breast implants to get your pre-baby boobs back?

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