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frizzle
18/04/2012, 08:02 AM
Sending all my prayers your way. I hope things are getting better.
Razman
18/04/2012, 08:07 AM
thinking of you all. Thanks for the updates. The girls are beautiful.
newkie
18/04/2012, 08:10 AM
Hoping today brings better news for your precious little girls. Thank you for sharing their photos, absolutely beautiful
lovealpacas
18/04/2012, 08:14 AM
Oh Jess thanks for the lovely pics. They've grown so much! Sending all my best wishes, heaps of alpaca snuggles and lots of love to you, your family and your sweet babies.
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carolyn*3girls
18/04/2012, 08:14 AM
Jess I keep checking and checking for updates. Thanks for the updates and the photos, your girls are absolutely beautiful.
Your little born fighters will keep on fighting, they have beaten every obstacle before and they will beat this.
Much love from the whole EB community
~kitteh.hoarderer~
18/04/2012, 09:11 AM
Jess, I wouldn't put too much pressure on yourself about making their birthday huge, definitely do something (a cake and lots of singing!!), but maybe have a big party for them when they are better?
God knows you are dealing with enough without worrying about making it a big celebration!
Maybe You and Jase and A and K all go up and give them a BIG rendition of happy birthday and shower them with lots of little gifts??
Take care, I hope they had a good night and are fighting strong this morning!
credence
18/04/2012, 09:33 AM
Are you allowed to have some helium balloons maybe? A really pretty arrangement of them near their cots?
mummyofour
18/04/2012, 09:35 AM
Morning Quixote - your girls are just gorgeous and I can see why you want them back to give them cuddles - I want to jump through the screen and pick 'em up (crazy stalker lady that I am ! haha) so I can only imagine how much you want to be cuddling them right now.
For their birthday is there any way you can do what you were planning at home in some reduced capacity ?? I don't know what you were planning but what sprang to my mind were perhaps some helium balloons, Happy Birthday banner and a new teddy ? or something to cuddle ?? Whatever you do, it will be super special
Continuing prayers and get well thoughts for both the girls xxxxx
Jenflea
18/04/2012, 09:50 AM
Does the hospital have Clown doctors or regular visitors to the children's ward? You know, the Make A Wish type fun people who try to entertain the children to take their minds off the treatments? Maybe they might be able to do something suitable or suggest stuff. Even a few balloons and a big banner would be ok.
soontobegran
18/04/2012, 09:58 AM
Jess, talk to the staff. I am sure they will respect the need to have a birthday celebration for your beautiful girls and will help you plan something.
You'll find that they will probably do something too .
x
PurpleNess
18/04/2012, 10:03 AM
Hi Jess, Such beautiful girls :-), hoping you get your cuddles soon, I'm sure Eden is also waiting!
Agree you should talk to the staff about their birthdays, it will be special no matter what or where, just focus on them getting better :-)
junebuggy11
18/04/2012, 10:03 AM
Hi Quixote, I'm glad to hear the girls are still fighting... I work in a PICU, and we ALWAYS celebrate birthdays.... I'm pretty sure PMH will be no different.
Hoping you don't have to celebrate in icu tho x
Escapin
18/04/2012, 10:47 AM
And don't forget the champagne for you! First birthdays are just as much for the parents I think
lovealpacas
18/04/2012, 12:34 PM
I second the champagne! It's a big event

. And even though they can't eat it, cake is always good, everyone loves cake! And I'm sure your family will enjoy the cake on the girls behalf

Keep well little girls!
Tookey
18/04/2012, 12:42 PM
Maybe a family member or friend cold put together a poster for both girls of pics of them during their first year of life...they have such amazing fight In them both and I think it would be lovely for both to have something at the end of their cots reflecting on their amazing journey so far...it really is a celebration how hard they have fought to get this far and continue getting stronger...
*Chyloe*
18/04/2012, 01:37 PM
Your daughters are beautiful.

Stay strong little ones.
Rumour has it..
18/04/2012, 02:23 PM
Thinking of you & your family. xx
skooch
18/04/2012, 02:27 PM
Quixote I will keep you and your little ones in my thoughts and prayers. I hope the improvement shown on xray is indicitive that she will start to get on the road to recovery.
nomimac
18/04/2012, 02:28 PM
the tiniest step or glimmer of hope shows she is a fighter..thinking and praying for you xx
MinkyMonkey
18/04/2012, 02:31 PM
Oh Quix my heart sank
You have been constantly in my thoughts the past two days and am sending some big prayers your way. Keep strong little Eden xo
Majeix
18/04/2012, 02:33 PM
Thinking of you all. x
-*meh*-
18/04/2012, 02:33 PM
thanks for the updates quix... and especially the pics... naww they have gotten so big!
I am glad that the xrays are showing some improvement... hopefully its just taking some time for her body to get with the program!
*~*MagicHour*~*
18/04/2012, 03:08 PM
Just wanted to let you know that you, Quixote/Jess and your gorgeous lil girls are in my thoughts! Sending you all lots of strength to get through this - your girls are such little fighters and every little step is a positive sign
Thanks for the updates too - we are all here for you
EthanEmmaLola
18/04/2012, 04:48 PM
Awww Jess, Hopefully its just taking her a lil while to improve, surely the improvement on xray is good. Thinking of you all xoxo
Thanx for the pics, they are both so beautiful
Tookey
18/04/2012, 04:53 PM
On my....have you got someone with you? Am praying little Eden is ok....
Mamabug
18/04/2012, 04:54 PM
Know that we are sitting here "next to you", lending you our strength.
Red Cabbage
18/04/2012, 04:55 PM
Hoping all is ok.
gemmaw
18/04/2012, 04:57 PM
Quix I haven't posted in this thread yet but I'm another sending strength to your girls, especially Eden right now. I just read the update about not being allowed in and am praying all is OK. You're a fighter and so are your girls. Thinking of you xoxo
*~*ME*~*
18/04/2012, 04:57 PM
is eden having more trouble? hope you have someone with you for support
~elle~
18/04/2012, 04:58 PM
Thinking of you all.. be strong xoxo
ani1
18/04/2012, 05:00 PM

thinking of you and your girls.
itsaboysworld
18/04/2012, 05:00 PM
I dont know what to say that could possibly be of any comfort to you right now. I hope the online support goes some way to making you feel at least a little less alone.
worknmum
18/04/2012, 05:00 PM
Quixote. Another stalking and praying for your girls.
Thinking of you and praying they pull through!
Katieh1
18/04/2012, 05:02 PM
Praying here too & sending strength & love for Eden & your whole family.
Ange
18/04/2012, 05:03 PM
Jess, Sending you strength for what is to come this afternoon

Have you someone with you in the waiting room?!
Just read your update: Perhaps they are doing all of her care/wash/pressure areas etc and it is just taking a little more time to get her stable and wires in the right place. Why not go back to the room and ask if you're allowed back in. Has there been a change over in staff?
duckasorus
18/04/2012, 05:04 PM
QUOTE (itsaboysworld @ 18/04/2012, 03:00 PM)

I dont know what to say that could possibly be of any comfort to you right now. I hope the online support goes some way to making you feel at least a little less alone.
Exactly what I was going to say.
The girls and your family are in our thoughts
Lyra
18/04/2012, 05:08 PM
Your daughters are beautiful
I hope everything is okay. I am continuing to think about you
xx
Malaya
18/04/2012, 05:11 PM
My heart is in my throat for you. I'm so sorry you're going through this. Big big hugs and loads of strength to you and your family.
Crombek
18/04/2012, 05:12 PM
It feels horribly inadequate but I am still here too, reading and supporting.
Hope this situation is nothing concerning.
itsaboysworld
18/04/2012, 05:14 PM
Keep telling yourself not to think too much. Ive done the wait in the quiet room under different circumstances and I remember all too well that sick feeling. Hang in there.
duckasorus
18/04/2012, 05:14 PM
Therese
18/04/2012, 05:15 PM
Jess I am another one who is sitting here supporting you from far away.
carolyn*3girls
18/04/2012, 05:19 PM
Oh Jess everything is crossed for you - fingers, toes, eyes, arms, legs... hoping the news is good. hugs xx
*~*ME*~*
18/04/2012, 05:23 PM
praying hun. xx
.Jerry.
18/04/2012, 05:25 PM
Sending positive thoughts across the country...
SushiLover
18/04/2012, 05:29 PM
Thinking and praying for you Quixote!

I hope everything is ok.
Thinking and praying for you Quixote!

I hope everything is ok.
A.K.A
18/04/2012, 05:32 PM
Sending more positive stuff from over here
BadgerBasher
18/04/2012, 05:41 PM
I've been following, but not posted because everyone's said everything but now I can't not.
I'm praying. It's the least I can do.
Wild Strawberry
18/04/2012, 05:46 PM
Thinking of you and your brave little Eden.
~Jot~
18/04/2012, 05:47 PM
Another one here by your side, even if it is through the computer. C'mon Eden.
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