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Freckles
15/04/2011, 10:33 AM
New thread time ladies. 
Old thread is here. 
Emma
Jay_1965vw
15/04/2011, 10:57 AM
GOLD!!
Hehehehe
katski13
15/04/2011, 11:18 AM
Ohh
Silver
Danmia
15/04/2011, 12:13 PM
Bronze 
Thanks for the welcome

Annoyed this morning as I woke up 1 1/2 hrs before my temp taking time

Took temp anyway and it was 36.67... rolled over and went back to sleep and took temp at normal wake up time and it was 36.88 - big difference.
Have checked FF this morning and it says not to take temp in the middle of the night and try to keep to the same time even if waking in the night so I have entered the higher temp into the chart. Not sure tho...
Anyway will have to see what tomorrow brings.
**Mel**
15/04/2011, 12:13 PM
Gosh, I go out for coffee and a new thread starts already!
Edit to remove medal!
**Mel**
15/04/2011, 12:15 PM
Hi Danmia, if you temp correct in FF, your temp will come out at 36.82 or thereabouts - nice looking chart
jorgo
15/04/2011, 01:18 PM
even without temp correcting the one at the right time is right IYKWIM lol
expec if when you woke earlier you didnt talk, yawn, or move around too much
Lindyloo28
15/04/2011, 03:21 PM
Wow new thread already!
Welcome newbies,
Jay & Danmia, and may I say what lovely charts you have!
Mel looking like AF is on her way
Meg/Chocolate Shame there are no more train rides, will DH be back on track for next month?
AFM Well i'm am all BD'd out, hopefully we caught the egg,

if not we try again next month. Now in the 2ww!!!
Danmia
15/04/2011, 06:40 PM
Thanks Mel and jorgo - feeling better about my temp now

And I've learned something new about FF - had never noticed the temp correct feature before! Usually I sleep like the dead and it takes a bomb going off to wake me so was quite peeved to find myself awake for no reason!
Bugger about the temp dive Mel... I guess its good and bad when it does that... at least you have a day or two to get used to the idea rather than AF arriving in full force with no warning.
I am quite proud of my pretty chart... problem is I think all of my charts have been pretty only to go to pot in the last couple of days and then AF arrives anyway. I think my body just likes to taunt me!
Looking Good Lindyloo! nice clear jump for O - bet you are relieved to take a break tonight!!
Wow - Jay you have a great looking chart too! fingers crossed!
Jewels - hope the needles are going ok... I am not a fan of them!! Tho I know I would suck it up if that was what was necessary to fall preg

4 follies! It would be a hard decision if they all took and not one I would envy. Hope it all works out well - I think 2 would be nice and 3 maybe at a stretch (

) Instant family!!
Where is bebe today?
HappyWomble
15/04/2011, 07:41 PM
Danmia - your chart IS very pretty. Such a clear temp shift!
As for the possibility of 4 babies - would you believe that I spent the rest of the day thinking about future sleeping arrangements for my imaginary litter of kids instead of writing a very important report due in today?
Beani
15/04/2011, 08:14 PM
QUOTE (jewels1970 @ 15/04/2011, 05:41 PM)

As for the possibility of 4 babies - would you believe that I spent the rest of the day thinking about future sleeping arrangements for my imaginary litter of kids instead of writing a very important report due in today?

Daydreaming about future children is my favourite past time along with chart stalking and fertility research.
HappyWomble
15/04/2011, 08:54 PM
Beani - thanks

I see you're still gearing up to O
pinkblue
15/04/2011, 09:02 PM
Hi girls,
Where's the temp correct feature? How do you do it?
I'm still in the boring part of my cycle atm. Negative OPKs but I have been having some partial ferning which is a good sign. I still don't expect to O for a few days.
I have been taking evening primrose since CD1 to increase my CM but I have to say it isn't doing much. Maybe I need to start taking robitussin too?
HappyWomble
15/04/2011, 09:42 PM
pinkblue - to increase CM, try squats, kiegels or uncomfortable underwear...

but squats work quite well. My naturopath also reckons large doses of magnesium work well too (my experience - it does work).
Chocolate Mousse
15/04/2011, 09:50 PM
QUOTE (Lindyloo28 @ 15/04/2011, 04:21 PM)

Meg/Chocolate Shame there are no more train rides, will DH be back on track for next month?
AFM Well i'm am all BD'd out, hopefully we caught the egg,

if not we try again next month. Now in the 2ww!!!

Thank you Lindyloo, yes, he'll be fine for next month, probably two weeks..... you know, I STILL don't think I've O'd yet

that's 9 days of fertile CM. I wonder what the record is
Welcome new lady's
I can't wait to see some BFP's
Who's close to testing? Wow, there's so many in this charting, stalking group, it's hard to keep up with everyone.
jorgo
15/04/2011, 09:53 PM
temp corrector--- hit the data button on the left the pull out menu has temp correct as the bottom option
only there if you have a free 30 day vip or you buy the vip
Chocolate Mousse
15/04/2011, 10:12 PM
Hi Mel and CJ-N

I can see you both down the bottom there.
dreamingofhope
15/04/2011, 10:16 PM
Thanks mrs gretch it is feeling better :-) Hope your little marathon is going well!
Mel we did give it a good try :-P I really dont want to go back to the FS, i found your question interesting, like you I am going to be having the procedure done in 2.7 weeks :-( with many blood tests and ultrasounds and gah. Hopefully you dont need to do it either!
bit over due for some BFP girls, who is next to test?
I am going to test easter saturday and if neg again on Anzac day. Not sure what this month will bring? really not sure. had a bit of period like pain tonight and bloating like usual but nothing out of the ordinary. hmm anyone getting EPS?? i want to hear!
edit to add: Hi chocolate mousse lol how are you going? woah what an EWCM marathon your having!
Chocolate Mousse
15/04/2011, 10:26 PM
QUOTE (CJ-N @ 15/04/2011, 10:16 PM)

Hi chocolate mousse lol how are you going? woah what an EWCM marathon your having!
I think the fact that I'm hanging around in here so much and playing with my chart so much is a good indication that I'm probably fixating a bit too much. I keep looking sideways at poor DH and wondering ....... but there's no way, since he's got stitches in his belly

I've even been punching hypothetical numbers in my chart for the next two days to see if I could have o'd yesterday, but from my CM, I'd say I didn't. But you see, if by some chance I did O yesterday, and today's small spike was the beginning of upward temps, then I've got a slight chance since we last BD's early on CD17 which means it's within the 3 days.
So, I guess I'm obsessing....... need to accept this month is a right off.
I even had a dream early this morning that I was taking my temp, and I was already PG
dreamingofhope
15/04/2011, 10:36 PM
chocm gah everytime i think of you I want mousse bad with chocolate chips mmmm and a little frozen mmmm
At least you get the EWCM thats a great sign, even if you were to O today or tomorrow im sure the little spermies would be able to stay around in an enviroment like that so I wouldnt be too worried, but like you said the spike this morning could very well be the rise! I hope so, FX for you!
poor DH, I hope he feels better soon. lol that you want to jump him, poor DH.. P.S. dreams are a good thing ;-) so many women have dreams before they even find out, theres a little bit of hope there for you :-)
I forgot is this your first too? sometimes I feel like its never going to happen for me, like the feeling of pregnancy feels too foreign for me.. I hope thats just a silly thing. My dad bought me a starlight gem today, in the light it shows a single star in the middle and sparkles beautifully, he said its my little bit of luck and I look at it and it gives me hope :-)
Chocolate Mousse
15/04/2011, 10:44 PM
Of Course there's LOTS and LOTS of hope. How long have you been ttc for?
Even though it looks like copious amounts of lovely flowing EW, it's not really. Like today it was stretchy and clear but really quite dry. yesterday, there was hardly any at all, but some, so I had to record it. the two days before that is seemed like a nice sperm friendly environment. But I've had lots of months in the past when they haven't survived the 5 days.
Not my first, this would be my fourth. Having baby's is very addictive
Until it happens to you, it's just a concept, ie it's not 'real' a lovely, magical concept, even when actually PG, it's hard to believe

edited to add, that starlight gem sounds gorgeous, I've never heard of them before.
dreamingofhope
15/04/2011, 10:51 PM
haha I can see now how many kids you have, it doesnt show as you write the response, when I went to check. Thanks now you made me feel hopeful :-) Its just so hard to imagine what it can feel like! 11 months and commence fertility treatment in a few weeks quite actively.
So really it sounds like perhaps your O'd two days ago? perhaps because it was lovely and abundant then, its just getting the last bits out?? It seems we all in here are pretty much in sync this month, looking out to read about some BFP!
Hope its your month
Chocolate Mousse
15/04/2011, 11:03 PM
they say that about women's cycles, that women who hang around together often their cycles will synchronise
Yes, so maybe we're headed for lots of BFPs
Ladies, do you normally get shooting pain in your boobs before you O, or just after you O? Do you ever get O type pains after you have already Od?
Chocolate Mousse
16/04/2011, 10:33 AM
Good Morning
I'd say I've finally O'd. FF hasn't picked it up yet, but, I'm pretty sure, i did. Please can you stalk my chart and tell me which day you think I probably did.
I'm quite anxious, as we've given ourselves a deadline of next month, if not UTD by then, then we are calling it quits because of our age.
So, it's either this cycle or next cycle
It's especially relevent coz the last time we BD'd was late of CD 16, or early CD17, however you choose to chart, but it was around midnight, and I temp early early in the AM.
Am very interested to know what everyone thinks, espec you Jorgo
jorgo
16/04/2011, 11:44 AM
atm
cd 20 / 21
got a chance
dreamingofhope
16/04/2011, 12:21 PM
looking good choc mousse!!
how is everyone today?
Last night I had the weirdest dream haha..
I had a syringe full of semen.. and It was a few days old so i thought oh im out. and I tested it on my hand before putting it in and they were big prawn like spermies flapping around so strong and big! and I said to DH so so excited ' look look they are so strong, it will definately work this time!' then I visulised it implanting in the egg. It was a lean mean fighting machine these little spermies.. I think I must be obsessing too much!!
HappyWomble
16/04/2011, 01:39 PM
CJ-N - wow! what a dream! Hopefully it's a good omen for you

I have a question. This is for people who've done some assisted conception. I had my trigger shot yesterday. My IUI is booked for tomorrow morning. I know that the time between the trigger and the IUI is standard, but my concern is that because I'm temping and my charts are usually pretty good, it looks like I ovulated yesterday, so having my IUI 2 days later might be useless. That being said, maybe the trigger is playing around with my temps?
I tried ringing the clinic, but it rang out (low staff members on weekends). And I was feeling so good about this cycle...
**Mel**
16/04/2011, 01:51 PM
Hi everyone.
It's a beautiful Saturday here today (Adelaide)! Hope you are all enjoying your weekend
Temp has stayed pretty much the same, stopping the steady dive. 11DPO for me, just a waiting game now. If temp is up tomorrow will do an IC HPT, I think. Not really expecting it to be though.
Spent yesterday at work working out how much time off I can get if I get pregnant now, or in May or in June! I am a teacher, and school holidays add on to maternity leave to extend it. Seems that getting pregnant in May or June is better than now! But, of course will take a BFP tomorrow, thank you LOL
jewels, good luck with working out your timing, I have no clue at all!
CJ-N, wow what a weird dream! I hope it was prophetic
Meg, I agree with Jorgo (just cos she is usually on the money! LOL) But, it does look about right, to me. And I get shooting pains randomly it seems! When I check up my EPS from DD, it looks like I got shooting pains after implantation. But, over the last few cycles, I have got them too and some yesterday actually - so pretty random.
Gosh, you two chatted a bit - I can't see anyone else on my reply screen LOL
Onyx
16/04/2011, 02:28 PM

hi everyone!
wow I have lots of pages to catch up on

hope everyone is doing well

AFM - Have just O'd, although FF did pick up on it awhile go and then changed it's mind.
Had a + OPK a few days ago, so fingers crossed we caught the eggy!
Next cycle I am have a HSG done - hopefully it's not too painful!
I'm off to read over the last few pages, and then I'll be back for personals
Danmia
16/04/2011, 03:20 PM
CJ-N - wow that is a weird dream!! I don't ever seem to remember my dreams anymore

tho perhaps if they are also about prawn sperm then I am glad!
Chocolate Mousse (I always read it as Choc Mouse!)

I am with jorgo... I think probably day 20 or 21. You could put in a couple of higher temps for the next few days and see what FF has to say?
I don't ever get shooting pains in my boobs... just heavy achy ones a day or two before AF is due (as they are now)
Good to see you temp has gone up a little Mel - fingers still crossed for you this month

Pinkblue - I did the EPO this month and Robitussin for the days I got the +OPK and I have to say I had very little CM compared to normal!!

I have read that the EPO can take a couple of cycles to show an effect... not sure if I'll try it again next month or not tho...
AFM - my temp is holding steady still today in the 36.8's. It usually does the AF dive on CD12 so if it is still up tomorrow I might cave and test early. If it dips to the 36.6's then I will just wait for the witch. No EPS here... sore boobs today but that is normal this close to AF.
HappyWomble
16/04/2011, 03:23 PM
Danmia - your chart is still so pretty!
HappyWomble
16/04/2011, 04:31 PM
Just played with FF a bit and found the trigger shot checkbox (called "HCG shot"). It now says:
Note: You have recorded an HCG trigger. Please use the menu Analysis/Manual Override to set your ovulation date according to what is recommended by your health care provider.
So I'm guessing that I ignore my temps or they're not as reliable in this instance. Sigh and grrr...
jorgo
16/04/2011, 06:15 PM
well obviously if you have had a trigger you go by the trigger - but you were saying you had charting O signs BEFORE you got to the triggerpersonally i'd just mark the day you had the trigger with a note or a personalised symptom data- and leave it on auto detect
HappyWomble
16/04/2011, 06:32 PM
Thanks jorgo! Just flipping out a little - don't want to waste another month. That being said, we did get in some well-timed BD... so even if IUI isn't as well-timed as we'd like...
HappyWomble
16/04/2011, 07:12 PM
Thanks jorgo! Just flipping out a little - don't want to waste another month. That being said, we did get in some well-timed BD... so even if IUI isn't as well-timed as we'd like...
dreamingofhope
16/04/2011, 10:58 PM
jewels1970 i hope so too! sorry I cant help with your question.. but I hope you get your BFP soon!!
Hi jorgo you really should change your name to 'O Wise One'

I like to read your advice you are very smart.
mel ahh Adelaide, beautiful city, is it cold down there? oooh IC TOMORROW!! i will be on the look out for that one! woop! I am hoping it was a sign!!
hi Onyx! How are you going? Hopefully you get it this month and wont need the HSG!
danmia it is! i didnt remember it until my brother was talking about prawns and I lol'd. it all then rushed back hahaha..
OOH TESTING SOON TOO! woo!! so exciting
AFM.. I forgot to mention that last night I prayed and I asked for a sign. I am not overally religious but I asked for a sign that hopefully this was the month, then I had the prawn spawn dream, then in the car my brother said he went to a pond and was catching baby prawns which made me laugh out load as I remembered my dream, then I was flicking through TV and was watching a cartoon which was about sea monkeys, then I was driving and drove and got lost and went past the day care tadpoles (i am not from this area so I wouldnt know it was there) LOL it could all be nothing but I would so freak out if at the end of the month I was... so thought I would tell you now incase maybe it does happen! haha.
other than that, not much going on down there.... I get a few period like pains every now and then, but pretty sure I have had these before.
jorgo
16/04/2011, 11:05 PM
nah cj unfortunately its not a sign of wise-ness just a sign of of unfortunately being around here too long and having a body bloody incapable of doing anything helpfull or correctly
oh and hanging aroudn "the appitiser" for a longgggggggggggggg time lol
she is the oh wise one goddess of charts- and has been known to call and bfp chart from cd4
**Mel**
17/04/2011, 08:11 AM
Where is Appy, Jorgo. I haven't seen her post in a while.
Meanwhile my temp is messed up due to getting up at 4:00 for DD. Went back to sleep and took temp 3 hours later - but 1.25 hrs later than usual time. I haven't temp corrected though, cos otherwise it wouldn't be after 3 hours of sleep.
So am lying in bed wondering if it's worth poas.
ETA BFN on IC
jorgo
17/04/2011, 11:59 AM
seen her over in AC a couple of times
but she's "quit" ttc herself
oh and no poas yet-spec if already bfn
**Mel**
17/04/2011, 01:42 PM
Jorgo it was a spectacularly in-your-face can't miss it kind of BFN LOL
Not holding out much hope this month. So, probably off for that HSG during the week
Chocolate Mousse
17/04/2011, 03:16 PM
gee there was a big difference in the two temps I took early this am and later this am.
I was woken up by DS at 12.30, and fell asleep properly then, and woken up again at 3.30, temp was 36.26, then three hours later, after more proper sleep, it was 36.65. So quite a difference.
I thought maybe I should put in the small temp since it was obviously low, and maybe more of an accurate temp, but when I do, FF reckons I still haven't O'd then

When I put in the higher one, obviously FFputs in the O date as CD 20 which we all kinda thought anyway.
But I'm still having some EWCM (although it's really dry and stretchy), so I'm totally confused this month.
Any ideas re which temp I should go by?
**Mel**
17/04/2011, 03:44 PM
Given that it was still after 3 hours and probably around your normal temping time, I would use the second temp. If you hadn't have temped then and just temp corrected your first, you would still get around 36.6
Jay_1965vw
17/04/2011, 03:47 PM
Hi ladies,
Another few pages of busy stalking from the look of it!
Chocolate Mousse - I would think it would be the later temp, because the first one woulndn't have been anywhere near the time you normally test would it?
CJ-N - your dream and associated spermy items sound very prophetic! I had a weird dream last week about posting a newborn baby to a friend in an express post parcel
Jewels - I love that you spent the rest of the day thinking about your imaginary litter of babies. Two would definitely be better than four though...
**Mel** - I'm still keeping my fingers crossed for you!
Danmia - Your chart is still looking pretty!
jorgo - You may not think you are "the wise one", but you're way beyond someone like me! Your knowledge and advice is appreciated

Hi to everyone else!
AFM - I was spotting last night and I got excited thinking maybe implantation of "Harry", but my temp dropped a lot today, so I think I'm just getting in early on this EPS malarky

. More likely AF on the way. My arthritis has been a bit less aggressive over the weekend though, so I'm very happy about that.
dreamingofhope
17/04/2011, 10:15 PM
jorgo your definately a valued member here! I really hope your body gets in to gear.. Have you thought about doing anything with your knowledge in this area?
mel sorry about your BFN, stoopid tests, well you still def have a chance so dont worry! FXX for you
choc mousse i would go off the second temp!
jay1965 oh i hope its prophetic.. lol what a weird dream you had! lol Oh how our brains work hehe. I am hoping that was implantation for you!
afm 5 DPO and boring, wheres the EPS/IPS at! just period like cramping.. and TMI TMI TMI TMI a bit of very white CM.
**Mel**
18/04/2011, 06:21 AM
Morning all (way too early for me - woken by AF cramps

)
Spotting/light AF started late last night, so CD 1 for me here - and nothing to stalk!
Have the paperwork for the HSG here so will ring up and book that in hopefully for this week.
Gotta see a BFP in here sooner or later, don't we????????????????
pinkblue
18/04/2011, 08:46 AM
Hi girls,
Mel, sorry that AF arrived

That sucks so much!!
I was wondering if you could all have a look at my chart? Do you think I'm gearing up for O? My temperature has slowly been decreasing for the last few days so now I'm just waiting for a +OPK and a temp spike! Last month I O'd on CD21 and the month before that was CD19 so I'm hoping O is close.
**Mel**
18/04/2011, 09:07 AM
Hi Pink, yep, I think you are getting there...keep OPKing and BDing
Onyx
18/04/2011, 09:21 AM
Pinkblue - Yep, it's on it's way!
Sorry to hear AF arrived Mel. Good luck with your HSG and next cycle
Danmia
18/04/2011, 09:39 AM
Looking good pinkblue!
Sorry to hear AF arrived **Mel**

- Good luck for May

I think I will be joining you tomorrow, had a fair temp dive this morning and symptom-wise all is looking totally on track for AF to arrive tonight or tomorrow *sigh* I have to catch a plane on Thursday and I was hoping not to have to deal with the witch in an aeroplane toilet!
I think I might have to finally stop putting off the docs visit and see about getting a referral for ultrasound and perhaps also HSG to see whats what. The ostrich approach obviously isn't working for me!
bebe'
18/04/2011, 10:23 AM
Hi girls
been MIA
As it was grape picking weekend for us
& AF arrived, so feeling a bit miserable TBH
Ill keep checking in, while I figure out what we a re going to do re: TTC
It was a very short cycle for me only 24days & started spotting on CD22
So thinking something is up with me
my cycles have changed so much in the past year
Anyway BBL gotta go change the personals
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