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Beani
14/04/2011, 08:17 PM
We are doing it, have been for over 3.5 years and I never want to leave, friendly people, wonderful community, great for family, great for saving money. Only downside is no family and limited access to shops but just makes you appreciate the simple things much more.
rosiebird
14/04/2011, 08:27 PM
I've done it, we're now 1.5yrs in to our "tree change". It has been an experience. I want to move back to the city soon - probably in another 18 months or so. I certainly wouldn't do it for $20 000.
roses7
14/04/2011, 09:32 PM
For 20 grand? No way.
I grew up in the country and found that stifling enough. Just the thought of a small rural community gives me the heebie jeebies.
Chardonnay Buffay
14/04/2011, 09:44 PM
QUOTE (vego @ 14/04/2011, 05:42 PM)

When we were driving through smaller towns we couldnt get fresh bread (only frozen week old white bread

), actually one day I stopped at a little shop and asked if they had bread rolls for lunch.....she looked at me like I had asked for french patisseries! Most of those towns only have small IGA's and its really expensive. Newspapers are a few days old, there are few shops and there isnt a whole lot to do.
If it doesn't kill you, it'll make you stronger! I've found myself doing things I never thought I was capable of and week old bread wouldn't bother me in the slightest. Who even needs to read the Sun Times on an actual Sunday, it's enjoyable on any day of the week. Ours comes in on Monday. The only thing I miss is a break from my two toddlers. When my parents visit it is truly awesome, to take an hour off and just go ahhhhhhhh.
~*Erica*~
14/04/2011, 10:12 PM
QUOTE (SeaKitten @ 14/04/2011, 03:52 PM)

What? When did Newman get subway

Might have to drive the 2 hours to get a subway fix

and pffft Paraburdoo has a newsagency and an airport it may as well be a suburb in Perth

Ahhh, we may have the airport, but we only get fresh food once a week.
I would love a decent bakery.
Study Mummy
14/04/2011, 11:00 PM
Sorry TammIam I can't seem to get the pmer to work ! I type the message in and press send but the text just disappears off the page.
It'sallgood
14/04/2011, 11:25 PM
I'll PM you my email addy - K?
Tamm
Maple Leaf
15/04/2011, 07:34 AM
Tamm, for me, I would avoid mt. isa and gladstone due to the pollution.
I lived in Yeppon for 2 years and Rocky for 3, so know the gladstone area. And mt. isa..well, cause of the lead issues.
I like Biloela and Emerald though and any little places in between.
honoria
15/04/2011, 09:51 AM
There is outback, and then there is outback. Write out the pros and cons of your options and take it from there. As pp have said, the $20k will get eaten up pretty quick as it is more expensive to buy things in the country. But it could be the best thing your family has done, I know plenty of people who are so much happier in the country, just as I have seen people happier in the city.
Good luck with your decision!
LottieCait
15/04/2011, 10:01 AM
We are doing it now. DH leaves tomorrow for his new job in Central QLD ( between Hughendon and Julia Creek). It is a town of around 800 people. I will be staying here for at least 3 months so that in the event that he hates it, we haven't moved all that way.
I guess it will be hard to start with but I am hoping that I will get used to it. I think it will be a fantastic opportunity for the kids.
Good luck with your decision OP
Swahili
15/04/2011, 10:03 AM
I would sooner gnaw off a toe than move to the Outback. *shudder*
Chillax
15/04/2011, 10:10 AM
The outback? Hells no.
Urgh.
And defs not for $20k. For an extra $200k, I'd think about it. Maybe.
countrymel
15/04/2011, 10:11 AM
For 2-3 years, and it means the family is together? I'd do it!
It isn't forever, you will still have your home/house to come back to if it isn't what you like... risk free adventure in my book!
Although in reality I probably wouldn't simply because of the heat - I'm a delicate temperate climate flower!
So I also wouldn't move to QLD/WA/SA cities either!
LisaMaree82
15/04/2011, 10:18 AM
QUOTE (Maple Leaf @ 15/04/2011, 07:34 AM)

Tamm, for me, I would avoid mt. isa and gladstone due to the pollution.
I lived in Yeppon for 2 years and Rocky for 3, so know the gladstone area. And mt. isa..well, cause of the lead issues.
I like Biloela and Emerald though and any little places in between.

We live in Emerald, best move we ever made. But we have a population of 18 000 and a Woolies and a Coles etc. We are now getting a Big W hooray.
BUT there is a huge downside when it comes to healthcare as a PP has mentioned, I couldn't imagine what it would be like in a remote town. I really only notice how little we have out here when we need to see a doctor, get an ultrasound etc. My DS got really sick at night and the weather was bad so the flying doctor couldn't come and get us. I was assured that they could do video link up and be talked through procedures from a Paed in Bris if the need arose
For an extra 20K I probably wouldn't do it.
Lisa
tothebeach
15/04/2011, 10:35 AM
If you're doing it for the money, $20K is not much. You need to consider:
- high cost of living
- paying tax on the rent that you get for the house
- capital gains tax when you sell your house (for the period that you rented it out)
I couldn't do it. The lack of fresh things would do me in.
Study Mummy
17/04/2011, 08:13 AM
DH is now having doubts, he has a teenage daughter, and originally we thought she could come up in the school holidays and stay with us and it would be an adventure for her too. But after talking to her about it he is having doubts.
I can completely understand, I am actually disappointed though as I was getting used to the idea!
Has anyone got any ideas on how we could make it work with his daughter, if we did move? She couldn't move with us and leave her mum. Would just holidays work? WDYT? She is 13.5 years.
ETA that when talking to her about it, she was upset to start with, but also thought it would be great as well.
As I said I understand how he feels. I also know that he is at a point where he needs to do something different and 'get away' for his own well being if that makes sense. Obviously though, kids do come first.
miriams
17/04/2011, 09:04 AM
I couldn't do it.
virtuallotus
17/04/2011, 09:13 AM
Depends on where it is.
Having lived in some smaller towns, there is no way I'd want to go back to those places. However, if it was a very remote area, then I might consider it.
ambwrose
17/04/2011, 09:51 AM
I'd still consider it.
His DD could still visit, and you could both go holidays togeather some where else once a year.
If you want to PM me the town I might be able to give some more advise, DH sub contracts to some of the oil/gas companies.
Margaret
Bluie
17/04/2011, 11:12 AM
Will DH's company pay any travel allowances? We get an allowance each year for each family member which means we can go home for a visit.
Maybe his DD could take advantage of that.
Study Mummy
17/04/2011, 01:33 PM
QUOTE
If you want to PM me the town I might be able to give some more advise,
I will try to pm you, I did have trouble doing it the other day but I'll see how I go.
QUOTE
Will DH's company pay any travel allowances? We get an allowance each year for each family member which means we can go home for a visit.
That's a good question. He'll have to find that out if he gets the job.
Oh why can't this all be simple! I know... it's life.
ETA still having trouble PMing, i've sent a message to admin.
Nanns
17/04/2011, 01:37 PM
I wouldn't move but then again, I love the city.
Good luck.
.Jerry.
17/04/2011, 01:56 PM
I lived in North Western Queensland for seven years. I know the area quite well. I greatly enjoyed my time out there. I met DP there We go back every second year for a holiday to visit DP's family. He also has family in Julia Creek.
Part of why I enjoyed my time there is that I was young and enjoyed a beverage or two.
Some towns up there are great and some are not.
PM me if you can for more information.
Study Mummy
17/04/2011, 02:19 PM
I am trying to pm you Jerry and ambwrose but I can't do it. When I press send it comes back saying I need to write text, and the text I did write has disappeared! Frustrating!
I must say that DH and I both hate the city... I like the convenience of where we live, close to shops and family etc, but we crave open spaces.
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