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tryingforfirst3
Evening - this is going to be quick and possibly hard to read/understand. I am absolulty devestated and I was right in thinking something was going on with DH.
sad.gif We seem to have moved to our 'new start' in life in hope that he could leave behind his other relationship.......
Almost 36 weeks pregnant and now I have lost the trust in my husband, my good health, and the strength to get through this. We are still together atm, but not a happy house as I am sure you can understand. I have just got out of hospital today, and I have very high BP etc. Looks like I will have the babies on or around the Easter Holiday.

I still love him and he loves me - we both also love our new life here, and now I don't ever want to go back to Perth. One thing he blamed it on was the amount of time I was on the computer and the lack of personal attention I gave him :mad: he even accused me of having an internet affair....WTF!
So Monday we get internet cut off - its a starting point. he also has to change his number so that the "other" woman stops calling!

Anyway I want to thank you all from the bottom of my heart for the care and support you have given me throughout my time here. Your advice and friendly words are invaluable and something i will treasure deeply. I cant mention you all personally because I am crying that much i will miss someone.

My Mum is here with me and my sister came over early and a friend from Perth, but we are the only 2 that can make it better. I just want healthy babies and so does Warren.

I will find a way to let you know what we have - but wont guarentee I will be back in any capacity...
Thanks for the concens and I wish you all the very, very best in raising your children, having your babies and continuing to help other people in our multiple situation.
Rhonda i did get your e-mail and sorry i have not replied, hotmail is going too....apparently thats where the affair is happening???
Thanks for everything and all the best for you all...Good Luck with everything Jen...Will be thinking of you in May!!
Welcome to the new twin Mums-to-be, a Kalgoorlie one too! Gracie - the house of boys will keep you busy, you will be a great twin mum and Barnaby and Chris are lucky to have you.

**When we made our wedding vows I thought they would be for life???? Hopefully this is something I can work through with him - just not now**

Before I go - Nee best of luck with the new arrival, she has the most adorable fan club already, keep up the great work in here. Thanks everyone else - you are amazing...

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Gracie
Oh Bree

I have posted in the due in April my little twin buddy. Again take care, will miss you.


TWIN BOYS DUE 11TH APRIL 2005
DS Barnaby 13
Zebette
Bree,

I have PM'ed you so I hope you get to see that message.

I will miss you so much, take care of yourself and your little ones and good luck with Warren. I hope you can find a way past his mess to get on with a happy future for you all.

Jo

sunshinetwin
Oh Bree,
I am so sorry love! I want you to know I will be thinking of you and the babies. You are such a wonderful person, hopefully all these positive vibes will give you the strength you need to look afer yourself, bring those babies in to world safely and be a great twin mum. It has been great being you friend, Wow...a hotmail affair...

Please take care of yourself, we will miss you heaps and all the best for your future and all it holds.

Hayden is waving and saying Bye Bye he has just learnt.

Miss you mate!

Love Rhonda, DH, Hayden and Jackson
No_idea!
[color=Blue]Bree, I am so, so sorry to hear your news. Please take care, and I hope that in time you and Warren manage to sort things out.

Vanessa


Nee
Oh Bree, I'm so very sorry that you are having to go through all of this! It's just so unfair for you. You are going to be very missed around here! Please take care of yourself and hope you can find some way to let us know how you get on with your little ones.

xxxx Will be thinking of you.

katef
Oh Bree!

I agree with all the others you will be very much missed around here but you have to do what is right for you and your family. I know you will be the greatest mum to your precious bubs and I hope things work out to be 100% happy for you all!

hugs from the girls and I

Kate


Bethrachel
Hi Bree,

I was so sorry to read your post. What an awful thing to find out at such a momentous time in your life. I really hope that you find some happiness soon. Good luck for the birth of your babies.

Beth


Sophie and Daisy 9/4/03
3-Bear-Bums
Oh Bree hun i hope everything works out the best for you and i wish you all the very best for the future. Think of you and having healthy babies and forget all the past problems. You have a great future ahead of you with those soon to be babies original.gif Take care hun and PM me if need be.. Thinking of you... Hoping i wont have to miss our little PM's that we have shared over the past eight & a half months.

Approx Induction Date:
4th May 05 @ 36wks
And counting



This message was edited by Jennifer72 on Sunday, 13 March 2005 @ 9:07 PM
Drew
Hi Bree

I hope I am not too late for you to read my well wishes for you and hubby. I have only just read your post. As the others have said, you will be missed on these threads and especially by me as I have been following you all the way from the TTC threads and am not far behind you.

I wish you all the best with your bubs and hope that things with hubby are worked out soon...

Lots of love and {{{{{{{{{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}}}}}}}

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Maycee
Oh Bree I'm so sorry. I hope you are able to work everything out. As if you need stuff like this to sort out when you're about to have your babies!?! It's so unfair. Thinking of you,


Maycee (35)
DH (33)
Twin boys (4/12/01)
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