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Ashanti..
Happy family of 2 children, both achieved with IVF.
Really wanting one last baby to complete the family. I know it seems greedy to ask for another one and have really soul searched if we should ask the universe for another favour, but whether it’s your first or second or third, the yearning doesn’t change.

Would have had half a dozen if time was on our side, but unfortunately had to start our family late.

Of course it goes without saying that all expenses would be paid and eternal gratitude

Please PM me if you are interested.
slappy68
Shaz,
Just wanted to say all the very best, and no your not been greedy at all. I too have two boys from a previous marriage, I had them young, and now I'm also waiting for an ed, to full fill my dreams.
Good luck with your search xx
Chris.
SJ2571
No you are not greedy in anyway.

I had two beautiful little boys via IVF and my little miracle girl came naturally.

I wish you all the best for your own little miracle be it IVF or natural.

I also just wanted to let you know I was just starting up another frozen cycle when I found out I fell pregnant naturally.
i adore
cant pm u atm what state are you from ? pm me
Ashanti..
Thank you all for your support and kind words. I was really nervous about putting this request out there, so it mean't at lot to get your replies.
twistedmama
Good luck with everything wub.gif
Freckles
Please note that you may not reply to this request in the thread. If you think you may be interested in donating to this member please contact them via the PM (private message) system. See the Donor Conception Rules here for more information. If you have any questions please PM me as I am this forum’s moderator.

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Ashanti..
QUOTE (suz1987 @ 24/03/2011, 03:53 PM) *
cant pm u atm what state are you from ? pm me

Hi Suz, I pm'd you. Did you get it?
Shaz
Ashanti..
Sorry but just giving this another try. Havn't had any luck with our search so far and also wanted to add that we are looking for an egg donor. Forgot to say that originally....duh!
Ashanti..
Well so far no luck with looking for a donor.

I was given some advice that maybe I need to tell a bit more of our story. So here tis.....

This is my second marriage. My first husband was a cruel man and unfortunately I suffered quite a few beatings from him before I managed to make the break. When you are in your early twenties you don’t have the wisdom or confidence to do this easily.

It took me a long, long time to get over that and I didn’t think I would be able to trust anyone else, let alone have children. Until I met DH. What joy to finally feel safe and secure. We of course decided to have children. Well it just didn’t work and didn’t work and then we went down the IVF path. Unexplained fertility, bad eggs, whatever….. it seemed like we were just not destined to have children.

Well after 5 years it finally worked and we got a baby. We thought okay we have finally got it right and tried again but were then advised it would be easier to just go down the donor path. We decided against this as we thought if it was at all possible on our own, we would rather keep trying instead of having to ask for help. Another 5 years later and many IVF attempts and a few miscarriages later but it finally happened.

But now we finally have to put out our hand for help. It certainly isn’t easy, but the joy of motherhood
makes it all worthwhile.

I hope this helps if there are any donors are out there considering us.
HeatherRob
Nice to see you puttig youreslf out there, your Angel will find you soon I am sure.
Ashanti..
Well we found a donor but unfortunately it didn't work out. Now after dusting ourselves off, we are ready to ask again.

We would be eternally grateful to have the opportunity for another baby.
Ashanti
beautifulhope
Hey Ashanti,
Have read your ad around a few times and have everything crossed you find someone wonderful very soon.. xx

Mel x
Ashanti..
Hi Mel, sorry I havn't replied earlier, I havn't had a chance to come back here for a while. Thanks for your best wishes in our search. Have to say though the waiting is tough given our circumstances.
All the best to you, Ashanti
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