I can tell you how things are planned for us and what I'm "allowed" or have negotiated. No idea how it will all eventuate but this is how things stand at the moment. Being a midwife has given me a bit more freedom with helping make some of these decisions but really these options should be open to anybody. I actively sought an obstetrician who was geniunely flexible on these issues and most of these things were negotiated somewhat in our first visit at 11 weeks. My twins are Di/Di.
• Epidural - did you 'have' to have one?
No I don't have to. Nobody has to have something like this inflicted on their body if they don't want it. Do thoroughly research WHY they want to give you one though and negotiate to have one placed without medication so it can be used in hurry if needed. I was told it was "hospital policy" where I am delivering but when I asked the nurse unit manager of birthsuite she simply said "it's between you and your Ob".
• Continuous foetal monitoring - were you able to have intermittent monitoring?
My option is to have intermittent monitoring in the event that we have a good reactive trace on admission. After having some CTG monitoring last night and having a lot of issues with getting into the right position to monitor both at the same time, I just cannot see it as a reasonable option for birthing. My tummy is huge and the transducers slide around - even without the hardening of contractions it was very difficult and I had to sit very still and hold both of them. Not ideal for labour.
• IV cannula -
I have agreed to this on the basis that there is a higher risk of PPH after twins. I will get it put in up my arm so it's not in the way of bending my wrists and being on all fours (I've got good veins so this should be fine). I don't see that it interferes with my ability to birth and it seems to be a sensible option.
• Drip after first twin born - heard this is often policy
Do you mean syntocinon? This is an option I've agreed to if the second twin doesn't follow within an hour.
• Cord clamping - were you able to delay clamping till pulsing stopped?
My Ob has agreed to this. I've negotiated to also have any minor resus done with the baby on my chest, still attached. I think people forget that babies are still getting oxygenated blood through the cord in those minutes. In most hospitals facial oxygen can be extended to anywhere in the room for the baby. This is widely practised in hospitals where late cord cutting is valued.
• Management of third stage - were you able to have a physiological third stage?
I have agreed to Syntocinon to be used AFTER the second twin's cord has ceased pulsating. I have refused routine use of Syntometrine unless a PPH is happening.
• Staff in labour room - how many were in there?
Our request is that there are as few as possible. I know how easily a twin vaginal birth can turn into a circus spectacular so I've put some measures into place to prevent that happening.
• Breech presentation – twin 1 breech/twin 2 cephalic, twin 1 cephalic/twin 2 breech, twin 1 breech/twin 2 breech - were you 'allowed' to deliver anything other than cephalic/cephalic?
I think everybody prefers Cephalic/cephalic but I think a twin delivery requires an Ob who is proficient and confident with breech as even a cephalic second twin can flip breech down after the birth of the first twin. My Ob is happy to deliver the second twin breech and we've discussed this at length, including positioning and what we expect of each other in this situation.
• Where you told that you would need an induction at 38 weeks? or were you able to go to term if all was well?
I'm right at that stage at the moment. My Ob said it was routine to induce at 38 weeks but he was happy to continue with the pregnancy as long as cord doppler flows and amniotic fluid volumes continued to be good. So at this stage we are past 38 weeks and have no plans for induction.
• Positions for labour - were there any limits imposed on you?
Only in relation to a breech delivery. Once the babies breech is on the perineum he prefers the lithotomy position in stirrups. This is the position he feels most confident doing a breech delivery in so I agree that this is the safest way for us to go. I can labour actively if I want to in order to get the baby to that stage.
• Options for vitamin K - were you able to do this orally instead of injection?
This is not really an Obstetric issue but a paediatric issue. I have chosen oral Vit K to be given only after the first breastfeed. I am sure you are aware that it's three doses when given orally. Research has shown that it actually gives a higher level of Vit K for longer when given like this so it's a bit difficult for people to argue against the practice! If you do decide to give it this way it's important to ensure that all three doses are given as the third dose will be given by you at home (unless your babies have extended SCN stay).
I hope that helps! I have some specific requests surrounding a caesarean delivery if that should eventuate too. I think it's important to be flexible with a twin delivery because it's simply a higher chance of requiring intervention or a surgical delivery. All we can do is focus on what we want and hope that it all follows.