Ahhh retail therapy
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silly DH renting a place 5 minutes stroll from a Westfields
Thanks for all the advise re Miles, trouble is with him - and to quote his swim instructor, "he is the most determined bugger i have ever met" So i know he is a little unsure and scared about the new house (even though we have only moved 10 mins up the road so we still have the same local shops/parks/etc etc) it's just that the kid ls like a dog with a bone... if Miles wants something - like his old house back he will fight to the death to get it and can carry a tantrum on for hours - hell months! probably years its just that he has only been alive 2 yrs so we havent been able to test that theory out yet - he is really unbelievable
I swear in 20 yrs time you will all be sitting around watching the news and the headline will be that the new dictator Miles Evan Mxxxx has today announced that world work III has broken out in his bid to rule the world - and i am only half jesting you here. i mean, he is such a loving, sweet child, so so cuddly and loving but man ca he fight a battle to its death when he wants something - i mean not things like toys, he has no problem if you say no to him about a toy he wants in a shop he just goes "can i have this mummy" I say no and he goes "ok" and thats it.. but its big things he cares about, like Mummy you will not drive today, daddy will drive or you will not have this bedroom Greta will have it - its not even things that he wants for himself its just that he needs to be in control - DH calls him our little lion cub, but he forgets that he is the cub and mummy and daddy are king of the jungle not him. Honestly mark my words, in 20 years switch your TV's on and i guarantee you Miles will be the next bloody Adolf or some such dictator
But having said that he is the most amazingly cuddly and funny kid and i could eat him sometimes, every one seems to adore him who meets him - hmmmm perhaps part of his charm, didn't they say Adolf had a way of talking that drew people in and branwashed them
Ive found a little park just across the street so we can go hang out there tomorrow, bought miles a little ride on car thingy cos his little tykes ride on has been packed and man is he p*ssed

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Jess: thankyou so much, i would LOVE a get together next week

you're so sweet to think of me.
Oh on another note, i called the health clinic this morning cos although Greta has never been into her milk she is down to about 3/4 of a bottle a day

so health nurse said she is and prbably has always been intolerent of it - oh now you tell me

so now she has started on solids she's like oh great i dont have to eat that crap anymore

She goes to bed at 6.30pm at night and wakes around 7am and you'd think after over 12 hours she'd be gagging for a feed but nope wont touch it.. so i wait an hour then offer her food and she gulps it down like she is famished.. then i wait 4 hours and offer her more milk and again total refusal but gulps down her solids lunch.. So the health nurse said to just make sure she has lots of cheese and yoghurts and if i can to put some formula into her solids feeds so she is at least having some but not to worry too much - she did say that i whould introduce meat as thats a good source of protein too so i'll do that over the next few days. Of course she sleeps like there is no tomorrow so sleeps through her feeds and always has done but when she wakes and is hunbgry she seems to be looking around for a solid feed rather than a milk feed which is something
The Dictator Miles never did so its all new to me. So yeah she said to still offer her mamybe 2 bottle feeds a day but try and get most of her protien and calcium into her via her solid feeds and then when she is 9 months old just totally forget about the bottles.
Clarinda: oh thats fantastic about doing the BF ante natal class, i would have loved someone to come in and show us how to feed cos we just pretended to do it on a doll and i never realyl got it and struggled like mad with Miles so much so that i expressed for the first 3 months of his life cos i just never got it so thats fantastic that you are doing that.
Well Miles does love being at the house and bossing the workers around - no joke he really does.. so ive been asking him which room he wants and which is Greta's and Miles being Miles has moved all the rooms around and we are all sleeping in different places than id like but thats ok i can deal with that

I think we are just gonna have to bug DH and spend lots of time at the house cos he just seems to love being there and loves watching all the builders so we might just have to hang out there for a few hours a day - i guess i can tek Greta's snuggle bed and stick her in one of the rooms to sleep.
Rach: Well i went out and bought play-doh and crayons, he isnt really into toys but he adores crafty things and loves imaginary play .. you know where you sit there and play out all the countries you are going to take over one by one in years to come

so yeah if i can keep his little mind entertained he might stop him being a little stressed about the move and making life hell on the rest of us!
Leish: oh good luch with the 5kg weight loss - i have packed my scales so cant get weighed

never mind, a surprise how well ie done when we get our stuff out of storage
Greta will happily sleep in her pram, she will happily sleep in most places

(oh except the car) she does like to sleep

as im sure you know! trouble is she will only sleep for up to an hour and no more and she needs LOTS and LOTS and LOTS of sleep so thats not enough for her so i always feel so sorry for her and then end up bringing her back to the house/apartment so she can go in her cot and have a good 2 or 3 hours which is what she likes to have a couple times a day. But i guess she will just have to compromise for the time being - it is only 3 weeks im sure i can cope
DH just called, he said day care has rung him to say Miles is having a lovely day.. so thats great - he worned them he was a little unsure of us moving and he is a little upset so they said they'd keep an eye on him but they called say he has resumed his spot as top dog of the babies room

and is having a ball although he does throw a tantrum every time they attempt to take him through into the pre shcool room.. so they are keeping in the babies room as they thing with the change at home and the change at day care its a little too much for him. I guess at the end of the day he is a little 2yrd old baby and is unsure - just hard to remember what when he has been sitting on his bed having a tantrum for 7 hours out of the day and no joke he will sit there that long... he is shocking. Thank God i find him so angelic to look at hey! And thank God Greta is so calm and the total opposite of her big brother

Ok best go and make up this ride on thing for him so he spots it when he comes through the door and gets all excited

thanks again for everyones support- i cant believe how badly i am handling this hosue move, i actually thing it would have been better to camp out in the house cos Miles seems to love hanging out there but i jus worry as there are about 7 workmen there that its a little dangerous for him - oh im waffling again