As I sit here in my miserable rut, I can't figure out what it is that blocks me from doing anything about my weight & lack of self confidence. I want to get out there and live life, be the me I used to be. Every wedding I go to I vow I'm going to lose weight and wear a nice dress to the next wedding, every summer comes and I swear next summer I'm going to lose weight and be able to buy nice bathers etc etc. And every year goes by with more kilos gained and I don't do anything about it I'm not an unmotivated person in other areas of my life, just this. Life is passing me by and I want to get out there and live it

awww hun I know kind of how you feel, I used to be like that years ago and just couldn't be motivated. I just wanted to send some hugs your way

Maybe we can find motivation together??

I keep saying I need to do something... but when it comes down to it... it just never seems to happen