I had a pretty cr@p mother's day too... no card OR gift or recognition of the day from DH. I'd spent the night before doing all feeds because it was DH's birthday but nothing was done for me...
Went to Mum's for lunch (which I had to convince DH to go to) but I was so b*ggered that we left early on the premise that I would get some sleep... no luck there as the losec hasn't really kicked in yet
On the up side, DH is usually so supportive that I guess every day is like a mother's day. Only thing is he just doesn't get that you need to be rooly rooly rooly organised to be a parent of twins, so I end up racing around doing everything between feeds (eg washing, sterilising, wasking and hanging out clothers) while he plays whatever or watches tv.
R and J had their 4-month vacs today. Gee J is good. He just cried for about 1 min and that was it. R is taking longer to settle. J just smiles at everyone now... he's a cutie!!!
Also J finally did a big poo just as the doctor threatened him with med to loosen his stools!!!

I'd been so concerned I was considering stopping the weaning process and giving him just EBM but seeing a good poo stopped that thought process (almost) entirely! I still have the guilts though.
Having trouble weaning myself. I have a good-flow breast and a really slow flow breast. The good flow one is softening nicely. But I just don't want to spend 45 min a time expressing just to reduce the hardness of the slow flow breast. I no longer express to empty though (but it means I have to express more often) - I'm hoping this tactic works. The dr gave me supply-stopping meds to take if nothing is working in a week or so.
Kazzil, I've reduced the amount of thickener in J's feeds but its flowing too fast now for him!!!!! (J's feeding sagas just never end!!!

) So my next trick is a slow flow orthodontic teat with less or no thickener added to formula... R seems ok (apart from the losec not kicking in yet)... she needs more thickener than J...
Grub and Telli... sorry to hear about your respective mothers days! 3 teeth in 4 days... wowee...
Gumby: all the best in Melb. Who/where are you staying? Have you found a good school? Are you going to move to Melb permanently? Happy 11 months to your bubs!!!
Ok that's enough from me... there's too much work to do around here to be idling my time away!!!
Niss x