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~Deborah~
Boy its been a long time since Ive asked a question here. It seems like a trivial one but I cant get it out of my head.

My little DS 4 years old has just started pre school this year. It looks like his best friend at pre school is a little girl. He has hooked up with her and they play together all the time (for the past couple of weeks anyway). Should I worry about this? Or should I just be pleased he has someone?

Deb
Carmen02
hmm to be honest I dont know what there would be to worry about, my DD's best friend through kindy and pre primary was a boy they did everything together. now she's in year 1 her best friends are girls
beachflower
He has a found a friend with similar interests. Maybe the other boys in the group are boring or just not fun to him.
This is common in this age gp. I am a Kinder teacher.
~Deborah~
Oh thank you for your responses. I guess I just expected him to be one of the boys. I actually have 3 boys and he is the eldest. Maybe he is just sick of boys!!!

I feel much better now knowing its quite normal at this age.

Deb
s-m
DD's best two friends at preschool are boys. They are both children we have known since she was under 2y (one pre-pg). Doesn't worry me at all.

When I ask her which children she plays with at preschool she gives me a pretty even mix of boy and girl names. Her class is very boy-heavy tho (15 or 16 out of 23).

Steph
*sugababe*
Why would you be worried? I think that's lovely.
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