YAY yay Congratulations Karen and family!

Re the house you want - offer what you are willing to pay, it's the only way of being happy with your purchase in the end. Eg if you want to pay $355k for a house and I only want to pay $325k for the same house, we would both put in offers based on what we feel comfortable with, the vendor would then obviously take the higher amount (yours) over the lower (mine). My agent was trying to hurry me along by telling me there were 3 other agents wanting to show very keen people through the house I have an offer on. Uh, yeah - so where were they at the open for inspections this weekend? Dad, Ryan and I had the house to ourselves... Mmm... ! If you really want the house - offer what you can afford to pay for it. Sure you might miss a "big bargain" by offering above what the vendor willtake, but the house will be yours, which is the ultimate goal.
Sorry, I'm being philosohphical tonight. Dad and I did a very thorough check of "my house" today and as a result I'm withdrawing my offer - I need a house that isn't going to fall apart on me in the near future! This one might.
Be sure to call on us if you need a babysitter while you pack. I'm sorry but I took all our packing boxes to the recycling depot at the tip last week, otherwise you could've had them too.
Alice