Glad I could make it ladies! I really enjoyed myself. Unfortunately I can't see it happening again for a little while as DH demonstrated a lack of logic tonight that made me realise why I was not comfortable with it in the first place.
I got home and before I even reached the front door I could hear Alex screaming... and I mean SCREAMING. I have never heard anything like it come from him before, he was so extremely upset (in bed). He rarely cries and never anything like that.
Paul said he had checked on him 20 minutes before and he was fine. He has a hearing problems so we use a baby monitor but the batteries had gone flat (they are shit and don't last long).
Rather than simply bringing the charger into the study and pluging it into the mains like a sensible person would he decided to put it on the charger for a few minutes at a time and then bring it back to the study. This only lasts a few minutes and it went flat without him realising (because the repetitive beeping isn't a good enough indicator).
So he didn't hear him... He had obviously been crying for a while. All I could think was what if it was the SIDS alarm I was coming home to and not him crying and he didn't hear a damn thing.
It's not Pauls fault really but my god why the hell did he not have enough sense to move the charger? *sigh*
Anyway not to be a downer... But it might be a few months again before I feel confident leaving him for more than an hour. I really did enjoy tonight though and it was great meeting some new face