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erica2012
post 13/04/2012, 05:43 PM
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I realised the other day I haven't spoken with my MIL since christmas 2010. My friend thinks this is slack. My DH, her son, speaks to her every four or five months and keeps her up-to-date with the news.

I sent her an easter card a month ago with photos of her grandson.

I don't know where the time goes - I am so busy with my son, my part-time work and taking care of DH.
We live in different states and often it's difficult to judge the best time to call

Or, am I pretty slack?
My friend thinks so.



I am due to have another baby in July and might phone her then.

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post 13/04/2012, 07:06 PM
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I never call her. My husband doesn't mind because he never called my mother either.
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- erica2012   When was the last time you spoke to your MIL   13/04/2012, 05:43 PM
- - ~Catherine~   Yesterday on the phone ..... personally I think it...   13/04/2012, 05:47 PM
- - lsolaBella   My folks live interstate and if I haven't phon...   13/04/2012, 05:48 PM
- - tigerdog   This morning. I had to let her know the insurance...   13/04/2012, 05:48 PM
- - follies   I never met her to begin with! The Step-MIL is...   13/04/2012, 05:49 PM
- - irisis   I guess it depends on your relationship with her. ...   13/04/2012, 05:51 PM
- - butterflydreaming   That is slack. Do talks to my mother a few times a...   13/04/2012, 05:53 PM
- - ~Flick~   On the phone? Probably 3-4 times a week, and that...   13/04/2012, 05:54 PM
- - countrymel   My DP and I have been together for 12 years and I ...   13/04/2012, 05:54 PM
- - threelittlegems   I phone my MIL for a chat (or vice versa) at least...   13/04/2012, 05:59 PM
- - Nicole-Bris   Has she called since Christmas 2010? If not, well ...   13/04/2012, 06:00 PM
- - au*lit   The last time I spoke to her was when I saw her on...   13/04/2012, 06:00 PM
- - lsolaBella   QUOTE I'm not terribly close to MIL. I don...   13/04/2012, 06:03 PM
- - Miss-Lis   2003 LOL. She is a weird woman and we don't ...   13/04/2012, 06:03 PM
- - Bel Rowley   About 2 hours ago, she and FIL babysat the kids al...   13/04/2012, 06:05 PM
- - ~LTM~   Not since Christmas 2011. They live interstate an...   13/04/2012, 06:06 PM
- - *lalah*   I don't think you're slack. I see my MIL a...   13/04/2012, 06:07 PM
- - Cappie   QUOTE (countrymel @ 13/04/2012, 05:54 PM)...   13/04/2012, 06:07 PM
- - frenchalex   Ha!! I can understand au*lit!! F...   13/04/2012, 06:08 PM
- - FrogIsAFrogIsAFrog   Yesterday. I can go for 2 weeks without speaking d...   13/04/2012, 06:09 PM
- - shmach   Spoke a couple of days ago. Picked her up from the...   13/04/2012, 06:10 PM
- - PatG   I last spoke to my MIL in August 2010. My husband...   13/04/2012, 06:11 PM
- - redkris   I don't call her up, but quite often when DH c...   13/04/2012, 06:11 PM
- - tamjk   About five minutes ago. We live in the same house ...   13/04/2012, 06:12 PM
- - hopeforthefuture   2pm. We normally speak a couple of times a week ...   13/04/2012, 06:12 PM
- - Fez83   3 years ago in June - just before she passed away ...   13/04/2012, 06:13 PM
- - Display anemone   I have never met her. Neither have the kids. DH ha...   13/04/2012, 06:15 PM
- - annasue   QUOTE (erica2012 @ 13/04/2012, 05:43 PM) ...   13/04/2012, 06:16 PM
- - Kay1   About once a month, maybe more. Either I call her ...   13/04/2012, 06:17 PM
- - **Tiger*Filly**   Why is it slack? All our extended family lives int...   13/04/2012, 06:21 PM
- - ParadiseAlly   If I don't see her, then more then likely one ...   13/04/2012, 06:24 PM
- - fairyflossfart   I said "Yep I will just get him for you,...   13/04/2012, 06:26 PM
- - riva99   I spoke to mine just before Easter. I don't t...   13/04/2012, 06:27 PM
- - mrscanuck   OP I don't see why it is your job to keep in t...   13/04/2012, 06:28 PM
- - A.K.A   I spoke to her in person almost a month ago, the l...   13/04/2012, 06:28 PM
- - SUSIE25   About 6 yrs ago. she lives nearby too. Life has be...   13/04/2012, 06:30 PM
- - Canberra chick   If I'm in the room when DH is Skyping his folk...   13/04/2012, 06:30 PM
- - Fancy and Epic   I think last September with the Chch earthquake? ...   13/04/2012, 06:31 PM
- - i_love_my_moos   I called her 2 hours ago about some work stuff. I ...   13/04/2012, 06:31 PM
- - Bibendum   I get along with my in-laws really well, but never...   13/04/2012, 06:33 PM
- - Jembo   Only when they visit which is twice a year. They ...   13/04/2012, 06:44 PM
- - FloralArrangement   2.5 years ago she told us to go F ourselves at a r...   13/04/2012, 06:49 PM
- - mrsnorthman   I email my MIL a lot with pictures and updates and...   13/04/2012, 06:53 PM
- - MahnaMahna   I also get along with my ILs really well. I called...   13/04/2012, 06:54 PM
- - JustBeige   QUOTE (erica2012 @ 13/04/2012, 05:43 PM) ...   13/04/2012, 06:55 PM
- - LockedKey   January last year.DH and MIL haven't spoken on...   13/04/2012, 06:57 PM
- - samshine   About 3 months ago when she rang when DH was out. ...   13/04/2012, 06:59 PM
- - Green Door   I talk to my MIL once sometime twice a day on the ...   13/04/2012, 06:59 PM
- - kittennic   Today I took the boys down to her house for a few...   13/04/2012, 07:00 PM
- - JupitersMoon   Once a month or so, if we happen to pop in and see...   13/04/2012, 07:01 PM
- - IamWhoIam   Spoke to the inlaws last weekend. They live in NZ ...   13/04/2012, 07:03 PM
- - Kitty Fantastico   This afternoon. I usually see her or speak to her ...   13/04/2012, 07:05 PM
- - Zarlias   My DH and I both get along well with our MILs, but...   13/04/2012, 07:06 PM
- - OldMajor   I email more than I talk as she lives OS but I mak...   13/04/2012, 07:09 PM
- - itsaboysworld   I really dont get along with my inlaws but even if...   13/04/2012, 07:10 PM
- - Party of 5   I only speak to my MIL when she rings and want...   13/04/2012, 07:12 PM
- - Banana Pancakes   2 days a ago. We normally talk every month or so. ...   13/04/2012, 07:22 PM
- - ~Flick~   Am I the only one who finds it so very sad that so...   13/04/2012, 07:23 PM
- - *Mumma-to-A*   She came around on sunday. I think I called her mo...   13/04/2012, 07:34 PM
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