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Lucretia Borgia
post 23/03/2012, 07:21 PM
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Hi, as the title suggests, does anyone here actually put their baby to bed (in bassinette/cot) awake...and baby actually drifts off to sleep, unassisted apart from perhaps the odd shushing, pat on back? I went to the tresillian web site today and this is what they recommend for under 6 months. My son is 6 weeks and is in a terrible place with sleep right now, we are well into over tired territory and have been for about a week. So I put him in his bassinette after a bath, feed and a little cuddle, his eyes were nearly falling out of his head, but he was awake...as soon as his head hit the mattress his eyes were wide open and the howls of protest began so I patted and shushed for 40 minutes(yes I timed it) until my back gave in, he was beside himself and I was crying as much as him. So....not very successful! Tresillian makes it sound like you get the odd whimper then it's lights out. Has anyone does this successfully? If so, what is your secret?

Also (this is a vent really, just need to get it off my chest) but he (my 6 week old) has been awake since 2 this afternoon...I kid you not. I fed him before school pick up, and he hasn't slept since despite being held, I tried to feed him to sleep , rock him etc...that can't be healthy for him? This has been a pattern for the last week, and terrible night sleep follows. I really don't know what to do, any advice is welcome. He is breastfed, no reflux and won't take a dummy.

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- Lucretia Borgia   Putting baby to bed awake   23/03/2012, 07:21 PM
- - purple_daisy   Hi OP I belong in the 6-12 month section but could...   23/03/2012, 07:37 PM
- - therebel   Yep, we've put DD to bed while she's still...   23/03/2012, 07:38 PM
- - joshuakalan   When my twins (now 5) were babies I always put the...   23/03/2012, 07:46 PM
|- - Riotproof   QUOTE (joshuakalan @ 23/03/2012, 08:46 PM...   23/03/2012, 08:04 PM
- - Mummy-2-1boy   I could have written your post a week ago. A week ...   23/03/2012, 07:48 PM
- - leita   No.   23/03/2012, 07:50 PM
- - Princess.cranky.pants   I did that with DD1 and DD2. But it never worked w...   23/03/2012, 07:53 PM
- - Jenflea   Hah! My daughter has only in the last few mont...   23/03/2012, 07:55 PM
- - Shooz   I tried this at about 6 weeks and my baby was havi...   23/03/2012, 08:02 PM
- - mummyofour   I will admit straight up that I have been VERY luc...   23/03/2012, 08:07 PM
- - niggles   I did it with DD and I do it for DS. The reason I ...   23/03/2012, 08:18 PM
- - Leee   I have a question for those that just walk away - ...   23/03/2012, 08:20 PM
- - Nat1976   QUOTE (Lucretia Borgia @ 23/03/2012, 08:2...   23/03/2012, 08:24 PM
- - Shady Lane   QUOTE (joshuakalan @ 23/03/2012, 08:46 PM...   23/03/2012, 08:27 PM
|- - LittleSister   QUOTE (Shady Lane @ 23/03/2012, 07:57 PM)...   12/04/2012, 12:08 AM
- - Onyx   Most of the time DS is put in his bassinet awake. ...   23/03/2012, 08:33 PM
- - joshuakalan   Riotproof - your comment back to me is ironic. You...   23/03/2012, 08:39 PM
- - doctorseuss   My 6 week old rarely goes to bed awake. I wrap her...   23/03/2012, 08:41 PM
- - babybeli   Yes I did so with both my children from the begini...   23/03/2012, 08:45 PM
- - BabeBlossom   My baby is 14 months but I have seen so many peopl...   23/03/2012, 08:58 PM
- - Lucretia Borgia   Thanks for all your replies, I really appreciate i...   23/03/2012, 09:01 PM
- - Lucretia Borgia   Joshuakalan- it's interesting re your twins an...   23/03/2012, 09:15 PM
- - *Finn*   QUOTE (joshuakalan @ 23/03/2012, 07:46 PM...   23/03/2012, 09:22 PM
- - Nat1976   OP, one more thing, have you tried white noise? W...   23/03/2012, 09:32 PM
- - squirt081   Yes, once I had a routine for DD (she was about 4 ...   23/03/2012, 09:34 PM
- - Goldenblack   Nope, does not work for us. I have watched the va...   23/03/2012, 09:48 PM
|- - mum201   QUOTE (Goldenblack @ 23/03/2012, 10:48 PM...   27/03/2012, 03:24 PM
- - fivesit11   My first was terrible, fed every hour for 10 days...   23/03/2012, 09:57 PM
- - lucky 2   Unsettledness tends to peak at 6-8 weeks of age in...   23/03/2012, 11:11 PM
- - moomin mamma   My DD had to be held, rocked, patted, walked whate...   23/03/2012, 11:30 PM
- - sophiasmum   With DD1 we did it when we went for a week residen...   24/03/2012, 07:59 AM
- - meggs1   At 5.5 months and after a week of sleep school, I ...   24/03/2012, 10:16 AM
- - NewMumm   EAT, PLAY, SLEEP That was the best nit of advice ...   24/03/2012, 11:13 PM
- - Nat1976   QUOTE (NewMumm @ 25/03/2012, 12:13 AM) EA...   25/03/2012, 08:43 AM
- - chocolatecrackle   OP, your baby sounds like mine was - in a bad cycl...   25/03/2012, 09:07 AM
- - RachealJane   Personally i couldnt put my baby to bed awake as s...   25/03/2012, 09:18 AM
- - KittyMoggyAlleycat   QUOTE (Lucretia Borgia @ 23/03/2012, 10:0...   25/03/2012, 09:24 AM
- - bubzillaiscoming   DS has been a great sleeper and I credit it to Tiz...   25/03/2012, 09:32 AM
- - niggles   QUOTE (Nat1976 @ 25/03/2012, 06:43 AM) I ...   25/03/2012, 12:11 PM
|- - NewMumm   QUOTE (niggles @ 25/03/2012, 01:11 PM) Su...   25/03/2012, 09:58 PM
- - Natttmumm   Yes DD2 put in awake from birth and hardly ever cr...   25/03/2012, 12:24 PM
- - girlonfire   We've been trying to do this with 8 week old D...   25/03/2012, 01:58 PM
- - thepixiechick   I think temperament has a lot to do with it. I can...   25/03/2012, 07:46 PM
- - Cranky Kitten   DS is a little unpredictable when it comes to this...   25/03/2012, 11:06 PM
- - queeney   Sorry I haven't read all the replies. But yes,...   25/03/2012, 11:13 PM
- - emmielou81   Hi OP. I took my bub to sleep school at about 19 w...   26/03/2012, 08:11 AM
- - Craptacular   QUOTE (joshuakalan @ 23/03/2012, 08:46 PM...   26/03/2012, 10:27 AM
- - ~Jane05~   Every baby is different and every parent parents d...   27/03/2012, 03:35 PM
- - vickyb94   this is the only way my 14 week old will go to sle...   27/03/2012, 10:20 PM
- - MAGS24   I am lucky my DS2, who is now 5 months old, is suc...   27/03/2012, 10:49 PM
- - ~ky~   My little girl (10 weeks) does go down awake most ...   28/03/2012, 02:27 AM
- - lozoodle   Yep I did this. DD1 was about 12 weeks old befor...   28/03/2012, 07:29 AM
- - alli01   We found with our first as with all new mothers fn...   05/04/2012, 09:01 AM
- - ♥~patricksmum~♥   Pat used to have a bottle then go into the cot awa...   05/04/2012, 09:08 AM
- - Thinking about it   This has to be the toughest part so far - concerns...   08/04/2012, 11:21 AM
- - trishalishous   i just boob to sleep. shes out like a light in a f...   12/04/2012, 01:38 AM
- - meggs1   QUOTE (trishalishous @ 12/04/2012, 01:38 ...   12/04/2012, 12:13 PM
- - hollysmama   My DD would never sleep unless I rocked her to sle...   12/04/2012, 12:18 PM
- - anon4000   My baby is nearly 3 weeks old and she pretty much ...   12/04/2012, 12:22 PM
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