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Oh Nut, I'm so sorry for the loss of your brother.
I know that your story will help many people though. Thank you for sharing. |
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19/04/2011, 12:06 PM
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Thanks for sharing, sorry for your loss
 Your story has made me realise I don't have enough family photos.
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I am sorry for you/your family's loss. Thanks for sharing such an important issue. I've also battled depression (mostly in silence) and I too lost a brother (just over 3 years ago now) to suicide.
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I am sorry for your family's loss Nut. Thank goodness you were/are a close family and you have such wonderful memories. To all others who have posted that are suffering from depression and/or have lost a loved one my heart also goes out to you. Take care.
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Thank you for sharing.
Depression is a horrible beast and I am so sorry for your loss. |
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Very sorry for the loss of your brother Nut, so sad that you and your family have to bear this loss. Thank you for sharing, it's a big flag for us all.
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A beautiful tribute for a very special brother.
I am sure your sharing of such a personal story will help others Nut. You are very special to a lot of people too hun, don't forget it. xxx Ali |
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Thank you for your story, it is a very difficult thing to talk and write about.
I lost my father to suicide, and my younger sister has had multiple attempts. I also suffer from depression but haven't reached that point thankfully. It is important to remember to reach out to people who you suspect may be depressed, but I also think it is important for the friends and family to be able to talk openly. There are so many feelings of sadness and anger that occur after an event such as this. Unfortunately my younger sister who I mentioned has attempted suicide (a few years ago now) has not only lost her father to suicide before she was even a teenager, she has also lost multiple friends this way. Bel |
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Beautifully written and the love for your brother and your family shines through your words.
Nut and Ev, I am so sorry for your loss. |
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I am so sorry for your loss.
The warning signs are so hard to see until after the event and I really feel for you. Suicide really destroys so many lives of those left behind. Thankyou for having the courage to write your story. |
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