[HeatherRob]

Hi my DH and I are hopeing to find a special woman that can help us have the family we so long to have. After 23mths of trying resulting in 2 MC we saddly can not do it on our own my FSH levels are such that the fs does not believe that trying with my eggs would result in a child. So we hopeing that we can adopt embryo's to help us become the family we so long to become. DH's swimmers a little weak and not so many. Now time is ticking by and we have little time left before the FS says no more. I am 47 so basicaly I have untill I am 50 before they say I am too old. DH is 43 and we dont think we look old and sure dont feel old.
DH and I both play darts, we like a good book and music. Dh has been with the same employer for over 26 years we own our own house and want so much for it to become a home filled with the sound of a childs laughter.
If you think you might be able to help us and would like to know more about us PM me. We will answer all questions openly and honestly.

This post has been edited by HeatherRob: 28/05/2011, 01:06 PM

[Freckles]

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[twistedmama]

Good luck, I hope you find a donor quickly

[HeatherRob]

Thanks I hope it doesnt take to long.
I already feel like I have just wasted the last 23mths and time is so short. We were going to do IVF 2 years ago but, the fs I was seeing decided that an opp to unblock my one and only tube was all we needed, so I had the opp after numerous tests and yes I fell pregnant strait away but, sadly mc at 6 weeks. Then the fs put my onto clomid after 6 months and nothing. I only had 2 cycles as DH was transfered from VIC to QLD last june and I could not get my script filled here. We then had to wait 6 months for an appointment with the FS. Then more tests and now my fsh is high. So rather than keep wasting any more time on my dud eggs the FS agreed that a donor was our best hope.
I hope that others here find their angel and have the family that they all dream of haveing.

This post has been edited by Ethyl47: 09/04/2011, 01:02 PM

[HeatherRob]

My wife and I have been trying to have a baby for the last 2yrs months. We spent the first year with a Gynaecologist in Victoria before moving to Queensland. Due to the waiting lists it took us 6 months before we got an appointment with the specialist up here. After more blood tests, poking and prodding I will never forget the look of devastation and heart break on my lovely wife’s face when we were told that her eggs were no longer viable and that we stood no chance of conceiving naturally, with or without IVF.
Our only hope now lies with a caring and generous Angel who would be willing to undergo the procedures involved and donating us some eggs so that our dreams can come true. I hope that we can find this Angel soon, as time is running short for us both. I would love dearly to give my wife a child, allow her to experience the joy of being a mother again and to bring light and happiness into our lives.
I hope you can help us please.

This post has been edited by Ethyl47: 09/04/2011, 01:02 PM

[HeatherRob]

Some days are so hard to get through without the tears, I dont know why but, all I do is cry I mean the stupidest things are setting me off, DH must think I have finaly lost the plot. He just hugs me tight, makes me a cup of tea. He asks me whats wrong but I realy dont know. At first I thought it was because the FS told us that the only way we can have a baby is through a donor but, now I just dont know. I am perfectly ok one minute then the next I am a blubbering mess. I dont know might need to go see the GP if I dont feel better soon. It isnt depresion i have had that before this is just plain wierd.

[twistedmama]

Some days are so hard to get through without the tears, I dont know why but, all I do is cry I mean the stupidest things are setting me off, DH must think I have finaly lost the plot. He just hugs me tight, makes me a cup of tea. He asks me whats wrong but I realy dont know. At first I thought it was because the FS told us that the only way we can have a baby is through a donor but, now I just dont know. I am perfectly ok one minute then the next I am a blubbering mess. I dont know might need to go see the GP if I dont feel better soon. It isnt depresion i have had that before this is just plain wierd.

Maybe it's a depressive episode or similar? It's perfectly normal to have times in our lives where we are extra fragile and under the circumstances I think you're emotions are very understandable. I've had depression too, so PM me if you want a shoulder to lean on

[HeatherRob]

Thank you for the offer of a shoulder, my DH recons it my AF on its way, it over due now. I will give it a couple of weeks and see what happens, or, I can go to the doc and see what he recons. It anoying realy if the FS hadnt told me I cant have my own bio children I would be thinking preggers but, the FS said I cant without a donor. I am sure it will pass soon enough.
Hey it isnt long untill your first cycle you must be getting very excited, we will be keeping everything crossed for you and praying it all goes well. I will have to keep an eye on your posts so we know how you go.

[HeatherRob]

bugger it just one of those days, all the signs but BFN and still no angels in view.

[Brinny]

I wish I had the strength to help everyone

This post has been edited by Brinny: 03/03/2011, 08:01 PM