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Rapunkkzel
post 31/10/2010, 07:49 PM
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I know someone who has children with different fathers. She is a good mum, no different to any other mums I know, she works, she's not on benefits, she's not tarty, in a relationship or looking for one original.gif
She doesnt tell anyone xcept close friends and family that the children have different dads, if asked directly she'll lie and say no they all have the same father. i think she shouldnt have to, but she thinks because of stigma to her and her kids she does have to.

Sooooooo i thought Id ask what people thought. Are mothers with different fathers for their kids usually judged harshly, even if theyre good mothers? do you think that say, two different fathers is understandable, but three or more indicates some character flaw of the woman?

(obviously I don't think this,, myself)
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MahnaMahna
post 31/10/2010, 09:18 PM
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I do not judge people for having children to different fathers.

I judge people for being skanky whores.

Skanky tarts that sleep around, making sure they find guys with decent money, say they are infertile so the man doesn't use contracption, get pregnant and then leave him after the baby is born, make visitation hard as hell, but makes sure that CS is in the bank account spot on time every month.

Unfortunately it is people like that that make it harder for everyone else.
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- Rapunkkzel   Mothers with children to different men   31/10/2010, 07:49 PM
- - Memphis   Each to their own I guess. Who am I to judge a per...   31/10/2010, 07:53 PM
- - Amanda_R   Some people THINK it reflects poorly on the mother...   31/10/2010, 07:54 PM
- - Jellyblush   QUOTE (Rapunkkzel @ 31/10/2010, 08:49 PM)...   31/10/2010, 07:54 PM
- - LisaMaree82   My DS has a different bio dad. It is a non issue ...   31/10/2010, 07:55 PM
- - Sybilla   What about fathers with children to different wome...   31/10/2010, 07:57 PM
- - *soy-latte*   QUOTE If you really don't care - then why do y...   31/10/2010, 07:59 PM
- - jfl   Despite your carefully crafted question, what you ...   31/10/2010, 08:01 PM
- - Brolynbub   Huh, well if they are judged, one day I guess I wi...   31/10/2010, 08:03 PM
- - SomeRandomStranger   I can't even imagine where a question like tha...   31/10/2010, 08:03 PM
- - eleishas   A sh*t parent is a sh*t parent, no matter what the...   31/10/2010, 08:04 PM
- - Chantelle-n-Owen   well i know one, and she had her kids taken by DHS...   31/10/2010, 08:04 PM
- - Chantelle-n-Owen   QUOTE (SomeRandomStranger @ 31/10/2010, 09...   31/10/2010, 08:07 PM
- - redgirlshell   I think there would be judgement if, for example, ...   31/10/2010, 08:10 PM
- - domestically~challenged   My next door neighbour on the left was gossiping t...   31/10/2010, 08:12 PM
- - Rapunkkzel   QUOTE (Sybilla @ 31/10/2010, 08:57 PM) Wh...   31/10/2010, 08:12 PM
- - MightyMummy   QUOTE (Rapunkkzel @ 31/10/2010, 08:49 PM)...   31/10/2010, 08:13 PM
- - ENTJ   People have children to more than one father for a...   31/10/2010, 08:13 PM
- - ~*Rach*~   I have someone close to me who has 3 kids to 3 dif...   31/10/2010, 08:14 PM
- - Framazon   QUOTE (LisaMaree82 @ 31/10/2010, 08:55 PM...   31/10/2010, 08:17 PM
- - ChaCHING!   FWIW, my SIL has 3 children to 3 different fathers...   31/10/2010, 08:21 PM
- - idle   QUOTE ETA - My kids superglued several letters on ...   31/10/2010, 08:25 PM
- - ~sarita~   Damn my DH is a s*ut then.   31/10/2010, 08:27 PM
- - PurpleWitch   LOL. I was asked this question today. Not what I t...   31/10/2010, 08:28 PM
- - Jupiter   Evening all, I've removed an unnecessary comme...   31/10/2010, 08:28 PM
- - Ophelia13   I know someone who has 7 kids to 5 different fathe...   31/10/2010, 08:28 PM
- - kadoodle   I've been asked a few times if my kids all hav...   31/10/2010, 08:30 PM
- - hayleymumof3   I find it funny(not haha funny) that the focus is ...   31/10/2010, 08:33 PM
- - ~FlutterbyeKisses~   I think there is a very big difference between som...   31/10/2010, 08:34 PM
- - OneProudMum   I know of a lady who has 6 children to 6 different...   31/10/2010, 08:38 PM
- - Rapunkkzel   QUOTE (ChaCHING! @ 31/10/2010, 09:21 ...   31/10/2010, 08:38 PM
- - Theophobic   I think you'd have to be really, really old to...   31/10/2010, 08:38 PM
- - Rapunkkzel   QUOTE (OneProudMum @ 31/10/2010, 09:38 PM...   31/10/2010, 08:40 PM
- - LisaMaree82   QUOTE (Framazon @ 31/10/2010, 08:17 PM) I...   31/10/2010, 08:43 PM
- - bellygood   It's kind of a make your bed and lie in it thi...   31/10/2010, 08:49 PM
- - MsD   Oh it depends on how old she is.   31/10/2010, 08:50 PM
- - Bort   5QUOTE (jfl @ 31/10/2010, 09:01 PM) Despi...   31/10/2010, 08:57 PM
- - Fifi LaRue   Well I have 2 children to 2 different fathers. My...   31/10/2010, 08:58 PM
- - ~NICOLE~   I have 4 kids, 3 different fathers and could give ...   31/10/2010, 09:00 PM
- - Pear Juice   I only think it's a problem if the mother trea...   31/10/2010, 09:01 PM
- - ENTJ   I was actually really shocked this afternoon when ...   31/10/2010, 09:02 PM
- - Loulabelle Doll   QUOTE I don't think there's anything to be...   31/10/2010, 09:03 PM
- - coopersmamma   I had a friend who has 3 different kids to 3 diffe...   31/10/2010, 09:06 PM
- - sarkazm76   I have a male friend who has a daughter to one wom...   31/10/2010, 09:07 PM
- - noone special   .   31/10/2010, 09:09 PM
- - Kimchi   A lot of people have successful remarriages and pa...   31/10/2010, 09:11 PM
- - Framazon   QUOTE I was actually really shocked this afternoon...   31/10/2010, 09:15 PM
- - Nieuw mij   Meh I dont care... My best friend has four childr...   31/10/2010, 09:22 PM
- - ENTJ   I knew his Dad was the president. I just had no i...   31/10/2010, 09:22 PM
- - MahnaMahna   Have you not watched West Wing ENTJ? Awesome show...   31/10/2010, 09:23 PM
- - coopersmamma   MahnaMahna HERE HERE!!! I whole heart...   31/10/2010, 09:24 PM
- - Tofu Puff   Sinead O'Conner kicks mega-ass, both musically...   31/10/2010, 09:26 PM
- - mummyofharry   I would never think to ask anyone TBH. Once they t...   31/10/2010, 09:28 PM
- - Mumz to 3   QUOTE (MahnaMahna @ 31/10/2010, 10:18 PM)...   31/10/2010, 09:29 PM
- - FluffyChickenhead   Some people are skanklicous, some people are not. ...   31/10/2010, 09:29 PM
- - StudyMum   I have 2 children to 2 different fathers (DS to ex...   31/10/2010, 09:35 PM
- - Bellefin   I have 2 step children that are 8 & 9, and oft...   31/10/2010, 09:42 PM
- - cookieluck   My SIL's ex had a kid before he met her, then ...   31/10/2010, 09:43 PM
- - Ophelia13   BTW I feel that women are ultimately disadvantages...   31/10/2010, 09:45 PM
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