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SusieBlue
post 10/02/2013, 06:28 AM
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James Bulger

I was only 10 when this happened, so I have heard of it but had no idea of the details. I just read this story on news.com.

My son is just about to turn 3. There are just no words.....

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LambChop
post 10/02/2013, 06:46 AM
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It was a horrific event, RIP little man. That poor poor family.
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Kay1
post 10/02/2013, 06:56 AM
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Gosh I remember it so well. So horrific.
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haras1972
post 10/02/2013, 07:01 AM
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There was a fascinating article about this case in the Good Weekend yesterday...

Warning : there are some very confronting details about how this poor boy died that I wasn't previously aware of...

http://m.theage.com.au/lifestyle/the-bad-s...0204-2dt7k.html

Interesting to read about how the parents of James behaved / how they were perceived, for years after the death of their son, the way the two killers were managed in jail and the contrast to other young killers in Norway and Britain.
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jessietroy
post 10/02/2013, 07:07 AM
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RIP. those kids should have been locked up for life!!!!!
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post 10/02/2013, 07:16 AM
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What fresh hell is this?
I remember that case well. There were no winners, bar the slimy scum bucket politicians who used the moral outrage to bolster their own pathetic agendas.

And no one ever asked at the time, or later to my knowledge, what it was that caused two tend year old boys to do such a horrific thing to another child. How did they end up so ****ed up that they couldn't relate to James Bulger as another human being? What had happened in their own short lives that made them capable of this?

Of course, it was far easier to just call them evil, which puts the blame solely back on them and meant that we as a society didn't have to confront our own failings. And there were a lot of failing in Liverpool in 1993, it was a pretty grim place with intergenerational unemployment, still living in the shadow of the Toxteth riots and the Hillsborough disaster, not to mention 15 years of Tory cuts and Maggie Thatcher's sustained class warfare.
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post 10/02/2013, 07:41 AM
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QUOTE (WingBob @ 10/02/2013, 08:16 AM) *
I remember that case well. There were no winners, bar the slimy scum bucket politicians who used the moral outrage to bolster their own pathetic agendas.

And no one ever asked at the time, or later to my knowledge, what it was that caused two tend year old boys to do such a horrific thing to another child. How did they end up so ****ed up that they couldn't relate to James Bulger as another human being? What had happened in their own short lives that made them capable of this?

Of course, it was far easier to just call them evil, which puts the blame solely back on them and meant that we as a society didn't have to confront our own failings. And there were a lot of failing in Liverpool in 1993, it was a pretty grim place with intergenerational unemployment, still living in the shadow of the Toxteth riots and the Hillsborough disaster, not to mention 15 years of Tory cuts and Maggie Thatcher's sustained class warfare.

Well said WingBob...much easier (read: intellectually lazy) to just fob them off as "bad seeds" than it is to explore the social factors which made this terrible thing happen....
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post 10/02/2013, 07:42 AM
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Well said WingBob.

I too remember this case like it was from yesterday - and the thought that crossed my mind at the time was "what the hell kind of homes have these two boys come from / what kind of parenting have they been exposed to / how can a 10 year old end up as a psychopath ??"

I remember seeing the TV footage of Jamie being lead away by the two boys and just crying my eyes out.

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post 10/02/2013, 07:51 AM
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RIP. those kids should have been locked up for life!!!!!


I agree.
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post 10/02/2013, 07:52 AM
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Well said Wingbob.

I can't help but wonder what those two boys witnessed or experienced in their lives to make them capable of what they did.

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