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Missy Shelby
post 16/01/2013, 06:33 PM
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So today we went for our 12 week ultrasound...

This whole pregnancy I have had the thought running through my head, "What will be will be", it is kind of like I knew.

We received bad news at the scan that our bub had stopped growing at around 8 weeks, I wasn't aware of this happening as the usual symptoms of mc hadn't appeared yet I have had no cramping or bleeding - except it started very lightly this morning, my heart dropped, I knew.

I am annoyed that my body didn't do what it should have done and thought that it was pregnant all this time when in fact our much wanted bubby was gone.

I am keeping strong in front of my other kids but inside my head is racing and my heart of breaking.

I suppose I don't really need any advice or anything but just need to come to grips that this has happened and maybe typing it out will do that for me.

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TinyTeddys
post 16/01/2013, 06:39 PM
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Sorry to hear of your loss xoxo
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post 16/01/2013, 06:42 PM
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I'm sorry.
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Stan the Fan Man
post 16/01/2013, 06:42 PM
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so sorry to hear it sad.gif
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post 16/01/2013, 06:46 PM
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I'm sorry!
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post 16/01/2013, 06:48 PM
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I'm so sorry for your loss sad.gif
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post 16/01/2013, 07:33 PM
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I'm really sorry for your loss. I understand that your heart is breaking and I hope you feel better soon. Try and get some time to yourself.
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post 16/01/2013, 07:37 PM
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I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. bbighug.gif
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Missy Shelby
post 16/01/2013, 07:37 PM
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Thanks guys for responding to my op, kids in bed, time to decompress...

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post 16/01/2013, 07:40 PM
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So sorry Miss Shelby x
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