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post 23/11/2012, 09:03 PM
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I was in the shopping centre car park today and parked near another car. A mother got out of the car obviously in a bad mood and started telling at her daughter 'Hurry the **** up. How long does it f***ing take for ****s sake" her about 4 year old daughter was trying to get out of the car crying her little eyes out. Now I don't judge a mum for being grumpy or being short tempered with a child especially seeing as though who knows how frustrating the child was being beforehand but I was really taken aback by the way the mum spoke to the little girl. I know I have lived a very sheltered life, no one ever spoke to me that way growing up or now. I think I would cry too if someone did!

Do you think it is ok to swear at your children? Do you do it in public or at home in private?
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post 23/11/2012, 09:05 PM
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I don't think it's ok to swear at anytime, let alone around children.
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MrsLexiK
post 23/11/2012, 09:07 PM
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No I don't and I never would. I had a friend in primary school whose mother would say things like "stop being such a moron" and call her kids idiots, and all sorts of things. I always felt really uncomfortable with it.
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post 23/11/2012, 09:07 PM
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No. Very far from ok nno.gif
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post 23/11/2012, 09:08 PM
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No, but I admit to doing it on occasion.
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Lil Chickens
post 23/11/2012, 09:08 PM
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Never okay to swear at anyone but especially children. That poor little girl.

I feel bad enough if I lose my temper and am short with DD or DS let alone how I would feel if I swore.
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post 23/11/2012, 09:08 PM
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Of course I don't think it's OK. Doesn't mean I haven't done it.
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post 23/11/2012, 09:09 PM
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I think you already know the answer. wink.gif

I don't even swear in front of my child, so no, I would not swear at him. But I tell you, when he is not in ear shot I can go off like a sailor. wink.gif
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post 23/11/2012, 09:10 PM
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No never ok.

Dd a few weeks ago broke my script sunglasses $400 worth took a HELL of a lot for me to just walk away. Once she was in time out and i was out of hearing shot i let rip lol i cryed i was that angry.

Nobody is perfect but there is always ways to avoid swearing at your child.
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post 23/11/2012, 09:11 PM
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I don't think it is ever ok to swear at children sad.gif

I was in a store once and a lady with a baby in a stroller and a little girl suddenly stated yelling at the storeperson "**** you, you c***. You can shove your pathetic customer service up your fat a*se. You are nothing but a fat s*ut and I hope you crash your car on the way home coz at least that will improve your dog ugly face"

I was so shocked that I just stared slightly opened mouth at her. The lady's friend was laughing away and slapping her on the back. Her little girl was just wide eyed standing there. Poor poor child sad.gif
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