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death of husband, suicide mentioned

big-mummy View Member Profile	18/11/2012, 01:02 PM Post #1
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didnt think Id be here and especially with the death of my husband. My beautiful DH had a very serious car accident in May which resulting in head injuries and multiple injuries. He then had surgery and alot of rehab. He then slipped into a depression that no-one was able to assist him with. He attempted suicide a few months back in our family home which was a real shock, we took this a cry for help and sent him to a private hospital for help, unfortunately the mental health system in NSW and probably all of Australia failed him and he was discharged after the psychiatrist said he was remorseful and not a risk of attempting again. Well 3 weeks on he snuck out of the house at night and was successful this time. Ive lost my best friend, lover and soul mate, we where meant to grow old together, he has left behind his 2 beautiful kids DS8 and DD6, surprisingly they are coping quite well and Im keeping myself busy but i cant believe I will never see him again. Im so angry and sad at the same time. Wish I could just rewind back to that horrid night and say "I love You" and please stay with us. No need for reply just need to express and vent. Thanks for reading. BM

Neko NoNo View Member Profile	18/11/2012, 01:08 PM Post #2
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I am so sorry for your loss bigmummy and I can't begin to imagine what you are going through. Thinking your and your son and daughter This post has been edited by Kate-ko: 18/11/2012, 01:08 PM

aidensmum View Member Profile	18/11/2012, 01:08 PM Post #3
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I'm so sorry for your loss. Couldn't not reply.

kadoodle View Member Profile	18/11/2012, 01:11 PM Post #4
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is it only a dream that there'll be no more turning away?
I'm so sorry Reason for edit: to remove signature

Mrs Optimus View Member Profile	18/11/2012, 01:11 PM Post #5
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I'm so so sorry for your loss big mummy xoxo

Maple Leaf View Member Profile	18/11/2012, 01:11 PM Post #6
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I am very sorry to hear of your loss.

trebambinibelli View Member Profile	18/11/2012, 01:11 PM Post #7
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I don't belong in here but had to stop by and say that I'm sending prayers and strength your way. I'm so sorry about the loss of your DH

kiwi-girl View Member Profile	18/11/2012, 01:12 PM Post #8
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I'm so sorry for the experiences that you and your family have had to go through this year. My thoughts are with you

greypink View Member Profile	18/11/2012, 01:12 PM Post #9
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I'm so sorry for your loss, thinking of you and your children at this time

oliversmum View Member Profile	18/11/2012, 01:13 PM Post #10
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I also couldn't not reply, I'm so terribly sorry for your families awful loss, I cried when l read your post. Thinking of you .....your story is so tragic

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