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What does one do?, updated on pg 2

ihope82 View Member Profile	18/11/2012, 09:38 AM Post #1
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Tv? Nope....friggin didn't know i was pregnant seems to be on every damn channel.... Housework? Where to even start..... Walk dogs? Too depressed to get dressed... Shop? See above...plus unhealthy fear of pregnant bellies and newborns.... Sit and mope...and feel every twinge, every ache of impending doom....is all I can seem to do... This post has been edited by ihope82: 20/12/2012, 08:28 PM

Chelli View Member Profile	18/11/2012, 09:42 AM Post #2
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Hi there, I have moved this topic to the miscarriage forum as there are some wonderful and supportive members who will understand what you are going through at the moment. I am very sorry this is happening to you and I hope you are surrounded by lots of love and support. Regards Chelli

ChunkyChook View Member Profile	18/11/2012, 09:49 AM Post #3
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I am so sorry you are going through this I just flaked on the couch all sad and sorry for myself. It had been a massive night and TBH I was still in a bit of shock I think (I had gone to the hospital with bleeding and they were just like "Yeah looks like you are losing the baby, go home and wait it out there is nothing we can do for you") Being naive I was just in shock that there was nothing they could do to try to stop it. Do you have a favourite place? Somewhere peaceful you can just zone out and try to get through it?

librablonde View Member Profile	18/11/2012, 09:51 AM Post #4
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Lay in bed with large amounts of comfort food, magazines, dvd's, sleep a lot, possibly after consuming a bottle wine... I'm so sorry OP My heart goes out to you

elmo_mum View Member Profile	18/11/2012, 09:52 AM Post #5
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play stupid mind numbing games on fb bejewlled rummycub pogo games

Jemstar View Member Profile	18/11/2012, 10:06 AM Post #6
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I would drink, eat and watch movies, as opposed to what I actually did which was hold a birthday party for a family member. I am sorry you are going through this,

peebs View Member Profile	18/11/2012, 10:36 AM Post #7
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I always found lying in bed watching something "safe" (movies or tv shows not involving anyone having a "whoops, I'm pregnant" crisis) to be the most comforting. Also phone games for when you need a mental distraction, I could never concentrate enough to read. Bed's the nicest physically too, especially when things get painful. Yummy food, cooked for you, and a massage too. And there's the crying too, of course. I'm sorry you're going through this, OP. It's not fair.

Shellby View Member Profile	18/11/2012, 04:15 PM Post #8
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I actually went to work - I hadn't started bleeding yet and luckily my shift was only 5-9am and I didn't have to deal with anyone or customers so knew it was safe and used up my time. Then I had 3 days off, which I honestly did nothing but read books until most of it was over and then went back to work. I am sorry you have to go through this time, and its even worse when you have to wait around for it. May the physical side be quick for you.

PetaSiddle View Member Profile	18/11/2012, 04:26 PM Post #9
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Wine. A whole bottle. I'm so sorry you are going through this OP. This post has been edited by PetaSiddle: 18/11/2012, 04:26 PM

~kacee~ View Member Profile	18/11/2012, 04:28 PM Post #10
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We went out for breakfast. Trouble is, it was a nice place, but now I can never go back there again. Look after yourself. I'm sorry you're going through it.

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