[2puzzled]

Glamour what are you studying? Best of luck with your exams - I only just finished 7 years of p/t study in July so know what you are going through. ugh.

Sunshiney - welcome back! hope you had a great trip (and sorry I missed you in my catch up post before). It's not silly at all to feel scared. It is completely true - that m/c certainly makes the whole experience different the next time around. we're not in kansas anymore...

trust I am a bit like you - I like to know what is going on so find charting useful.

sigh - back to getting tax documents together for our returns. blah.

[Wishfully]

Clare- That's awesome news!!! Am so excited for you!! It gives the rest of us hope. Lots of sticky baby dust to you .
Clarisse- that sucks that you're out this month and I'm really sorry to hear it.
2p- I know what you're going through. Time just seems to be taking too much time, it's standing on its head I'm sure of it! You are so right about the friskyness, I only got through a week, even though I knew I wasn't meant to, i jut gave in to it. It's so hard!
Glamour- good luck on your exams, I certainly don't envy you and hope that you go really well.
Trying- welcome! Definitely in the right spot. These guys are great with support and answers to any questions you've got. Hopefully you aren't here long.
Sunshiney- thank you for the welcome. I am in the same boat as you. I ate and drank all the right things, took special care of my body and it just wasn't meant to be- no warning signals is the hardest part of it. I too am freaking out about when I next get PG. it's strange to be so scared of something you want so much! FX next time we will have a happier story to share.
AFM- well, I am the same as Trust, everything makes sense when it's on paper so I've started my first ovulation kit yesterday. It's one of those packets of 7 so hopefully over the next few days I may get a positive. I will not be surprised if I don't though because I've read that post d and c you may not ovulate before your first AF? It will be 2 weeks tomorrow that I had the d and c, it feels more like 2 years ago! Am exhausted of waiting! One doctor told me there was no worries with TTC in your first cycle, and another told me best to wait for AF before trying? It's really confusing so am going off the way my body feels. I have read lots of mixed reports about whether or not it's safe to go for it post d and c so thoughts would be super welcomed? I felt like I had gone back to normal about a week and a half ago so FX that's a good sign and that I've recovered fully. Happy public holiday Monday to you all!

[Wishing2011]

Clare woweee congratulations that's very exciting

Trying welcome to te group. Yes my AF has been haywire since my miscarriage in March this year I'm on my second cycle of clomid as they are hoping to regulate my cycle, although last month it was shorter than usual with 3-4 days of spotting.

Afm 9dpo today and I noticed a bit of spotting when I wiped after BDing I hope it isn't a sign AF is on it's way.. I've been good so far not testing early. Hopefully I can keep it up!

[HOPE6]

hi girls, just

Clare yah!!! so my little dream was a preminition it looks like he he!!!!

Still reading along and hope for many more BFP's!!!!

A little update from me, so far so good. I am about 8.5 weeks and no spotting or anything touch wood. Going on Wednesday for a scan so i am praying everything will be ok, dont think i can start from scratch again.

Anyway girls take care and am thinking of you all xxxx

[chelby]

hey ladies

hope you all enjoyed your long weekend!

dreaming- that is odd that you have af again but nothing is considered normal after a mc. my cycles arent exactly regular

clarrisse- im sorry you're out this month, hopefully the 100mg clomid will do the trick

2p- im so sorry for what you're going through. i hope you're doing ok

clare- yay!!! thats great news! maybe this new thread will be full of bfp's!

wishfully- yes they say wait 2 weeks to prevent infection, i think i waited a couple days less than 2 weeks, i was so desperate to be pg again. the only reason i know of for not trying before first af is dating purposes but with all the technology with ultrasounds i dont think its hard to date it especially if you know when you o'd

wishing- spotting at 9dpo could be implantation. fx thats all it is! good luck with your bt on thurs, hope it shows a bfp!!

trying- welcome to the group, everyone here is so lovely and supportive.

k- are you moving this week?

trust- im same as you about to start using opk's tomorrow morning cd14, ive been o'ing between cd14-cd18 so next few days im guessing for me. good luck this month

glamour- good luck with your exams

sunshiney- welcome back, i feel exactly the same scared that it will happen all over again but all we can do is try to think positively i guess

hope- im so glad to hear its going well so far, good luck with your scan x

hope everyone else id doing ok

afm- so im healing nicely from having the skin cancer out but now i have to go back in a couple weeks again to remove a little more as he didnt quite get it all, not happy about it but not much i can do. im cd13 today and going to start opk's tomorrow, really hoping this is it, its my last go before my edd in nov. had a dream last night that i was breast feeding a baby and 2 other people have dreamt i was pg with twins! heres hoping!!

[Wishing2011]

Just want to cry I have woken up to a bigtemp drop and brown spotting at 10dpo stupid body!!!! It's only day 21 of my cycle..... So over it. I wish they could tell me what is wrong!!

[2puzzled]

oh no wishing! that sucks.

[kmaharaj]

Clare My darling congratulations on your BFP. I was thinking of you over the long weekend and for some reason I just had this feelign that I would log in and get good news from you. So very happy for you.

Wishing A Big hug to you hun. Hang in there, good times are just around the corner.

2p how you going hun.

clarrisse babe sorry that AF found you. Hopefully Clomid does the trick for you.

chelby so glad that the wounds are healing and hopefully they get rid of all the cancer. FX for you that you get your BFP before your EDD but don't put yourself under a lot of pressure hun. Just relax and it will happen.

Glamour good luck with your exams hun.

Dreaming how you going? Have you been to see the dr about your bleeding. I have never had that experience. Hope all is well with you.

Trying - welcome to the group and i hope your stay here is short and you get your BFP soon.

Wishfully - i know how hard it is to wait, i had to wait for 2 mths before TTC again but sometimes it pays to listen to the drs hun. Look after yourself.

Sunshiney - are you in the 2WW already? FX for you. Hope the JC stint works for you.

Trust how you doing? are you waiting to O?

Hope FX for you hun. And so good to hear from you. Hoping for a smooth sailing for you.

Bells - how are you babe?

Bristol - how is Prague? How's your language learning going?

AFM yes I have moved into my new digs. It's a good feeling but was very stressed out on Friday. It cost us $1600 (when we had budgeted for $600), the removalists turned up late, I am exhausted but not sad about leaving my home. It still belongs to us for the next 6 days. Just in a happy place, leaving all the negative energy behind. I hope the negativity and all the hurt never finds their way to our new address and even if they do, we are moving again in 6 months again (into our brand new house yay). I don't have internet at home at the moment so can't log in all the time. Also crazy busy at work but will try and do sneaky work posts. I don't even know what CD it is for me, the stupid ticker is wrong as AF was late. And I am not tracking. Moving made me realise how stressful things could have gotten had i been expecting. I am kind of in my "zen" so let come what may. If i don't get my BFP by March next year then we will go to IVF. At this stage, I will just get my body as healthy as possible and be as happy as I can.

lottsa love to you all.
xo
kK

[Clare L]

Morning everyone,

First of all, a big thank you to everyone for your congrats and sticky vibes

clarisse - I hope you don't feel too rough on the increased clomid, and FX that this is all you need to get your sticky bean.

2p - blah to tax stuff indeed! I did my return last week - annoying to do, but I did get a refund, so that was worth it!

emmy - how are you going?

Trust - enjoy getting busy

sunshiney - for you hun - I recognise that feeling of being scared. I was with number 3, although this time I'm feeling much, much calmer. All I can suggest is that you focus on what you can control - being healthy, relaxing as much as you can etc - and just try to trust that your body knows what it's doing (hard I know) xx

Glamour - good luck with the exams. Maybe not having TTC to worry about at the same time is a good thing? (feel free to ignore that if you want!) Just think how wonderful your cruise is going to be though <jealous icon>

Wishfully - I'm not sure when it's 'safe', as there is conflicting advice. We took a month off after each m/c, which I really appreciated. But it really is down to what you feel comfortable with xx

Wishing - grrrr to AF. I'm sorry she's found you again.

Hope - glad everything is going well with you - FX for your scan. Come in and let us know how you go, okay? And yes, your dream was right!

chelby - ooh, I love dreams like that! FX for you for this cycle, and for the next skin op

AFM - had an appointment with my endocrinologist this morning - thyroid numbers are now all in the perfect range, so that's one less thing to worry about. I need to book a blood test for hcg for my specialist, then I go to see her on 16th, just before we go on holiday.

I've spent this morning feeling which I'm taking as a good sign!

For everyone who's asked about progesterone - my fs is taking a very step by step approach. First step - check bloods, SA etc. All clear. Second step - keep trying normally and support my luteal phase (which is a little on the short side at 11 days) with progesterone. So that's where we are now.

If this doesn't work (I hate typing that...this little one WILL STICK), then step 3 is to see if there are any structural issues, so that means me having a lap. Step 4 would be IVF.

Here's to step 2 working perfectly

Clare
xxx

[Clare L]

k - we cross posted. Thanks for the hugs. I'm glad the move went well, and yes, sometimes an actual physical fresh start is just what we need.

It does sound pretty stressful though, so I'm really pleased you're finding your zen right now. Being healthy and happy is a wonderful goal.

Clare
xxx