We have been on the family building road for a long time, first with TTC on our own, then IVF and after that adoption.
Our daughter is nearly six. We've been waiting for an second adoptive placement for a while now and are turning our attention to permanent care (in Vic) for a lot of reasons, but one of them is that I am worried about a big age gap we would most certainly have with another adoption and the kids would not be able to play together. If we went with PC we could request to only be considered for kids 2-4 years or similar.
To top it off my dd is not interested in babies at all. She's a real nature lover and has told me numerous times she'd rather have a puppy than a new brother or sister, so it is going to be a ashock for her either way if it happens.
Has anyone go a six year or bigger gap between kids and how do you find it?
Edited by tkm, 17 March 2012 - 03:25 PM.