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#1 Jelly Bean 1988

Posted 22 February 2012 - 12:49 PM

hope this is right area to post

we want to ttc #2 in july but the thought of going through labour again is giving me the willies any ideas how to get pregnant on purpose accidentally so i dont pike out lol

#2 Guest_Nyz31_*

Posted 22 February 2012 - 12:52 PM

Hehehe..... Get REALLY drunk and have this stuff called 'sex'..... it's a pretty awesome combo! hehe.... original.gif

Good luck accidentally-on-purpose falling pregnant. original.gif

#3 White-Lily

Posted 22 February 2012 - 12:52 PM

Have unprotected sex when you are due to ovulate...

#4 Libster

Posted 22 February 2012 - 12:52 PM


#5 Chasing daisies

Posted 22 February 2012 - 12:52 PM

LOL..you know that doesnt make an ounce of sense!!
Just keep thinking it will all be worth it at the end
good luck

#6 suzy-c

Posted 22 February 2012 - 12:53 PM

Have a look at the Trying To Conceive section. There's tips on when you should have intercourse and how to work out when you ovulate etc. Sometimes the man is less nervous if you don't go into too much detail about the arithmetic. Good luck! original.gif

#7 TopsyTurvy

Posted 22 February 2012 - 12:53 PM

Walk around naked lots.

Let nature take it's course!

#8 niggles

Posted 22 February 2012 - 12:54 PM

Just stop using contraception and wait for things to follow their course. Unless you have some particular issue I see no reason for it to be something you spend a lot of time working and thinking on. Good luck. Hope it happens well for you.

#9 Dionysus

Posted 22 February 2012 - 12:55 PM

dry yourself with his towel instead of yours  rolleyes.gif

#10 Guest_holy_j_*

Posted 22 February 2012 - 12:57 PM

this apparently works, just make sure its your husband in the pool hey!!


#11 geckosrule

Posted 22 February 2012 - 12:58 PM

According to a reliable source........

If you wash your underwear together with his, you'll get pregnant!

True story........

#12 sydney75

Posted 22 February 2012 - 12:58 PM

i am on the pill and i have missed like 7 pills every month in the last three months and i havent got pregnant.

#13 CupcakeMonster

Posted 22 February 2012 - 12:58 PM

Maybe wait until you're ready?

#14 Jelly Bean 1988

Posted 22 February 2012 - 12:58 PM

no lol i know how to get pregnant on purpose but how do i do it without the idea of pushing a nother one freaking me out.
we did ovulation and everything to ttc ds

#15 Marchioness Flea

Posted 22 February 2012 - 12:59 PM

Personally I'd wait a bit longer seeing as your first baby is only 2 months old and give them heaps of attention and love and cuddles!
Also, is your cycle back to normal yet? Mine didn't get normal again till my daughter was 9 months old.
Do you really want another pregnancy this soon? Mine was debilitating the first 4 months, I can't imagine a new born not sleeping that well, breastfeeding AND pregnancy!

But if you're still for it, I'd have sex  LOTS with a man and see what happens original.gif
Worked once so far.

#16 MintyBiscuit

Posted 22 February 2012 - 12:59 PM

Sit on the toilet seat straight after him - cooties are what get you pregnant, right?

#17 Futureself

Posted 22 February 2012 - 01:00 PM

I would suggest counselling and actually working through the issues you have with your last labour and birth. original.gif

#18 Jelly Bean 1988

Posted 22 February 2012 - 01:05 PM

jenflea: wont be till he is at least 6months my pregnancy was very boring exept the initial 9 wks of morning sickness my cycle is back to normal and idont breasfeed this one he is on formula due to issues early on with him not wanting to feed. although hopefully the next one does.

Holly: lol might try that or mayby share a bath

future self: my labout wasnt that bas only 5 hrs but has insude due to ruptured membranes so quite painfull

#19 mum201

Posted 22 February 2012 - 01:06 PM

QUOTE (futureself @ 22/02/2012, 02:00 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I would suggest counselling and actually working through the issues you have with your last labour and birth. original.gif

I have to agree with this and also waiting until you are ready mentally to go through it again, especially if you had a traumatic birth experience as it's not easy.

#20 Marchioness Flea

Posted 22 February 2012 - 01:08 PM

I like the sharing a bath idea! lol

#21 BakerGirl

Posted 22 February 2012 - 01:08 PM

How bad could it have been if you're already considering another one?!  My DS is 13 months and I still cringe at the thought of sex...haha...just kidding but I certainly don't want another yet.

#22 MintyBiscuit

Posted 22 February 2012 - 01:13 PM

OK, disregarding my smart a*se comment, I found that with DS around the 2-3 month mark I couldn't think of anything worse than doing it again - both because he was driving me bonkers and the labour was still a bit fresh in my mind. Mine wasn't bad, but even a not bad labour still hurts like hell!

DS is nearly four months now and I can see having another one, and if you ask me specifics about the pain during labour I couldn't tell you. So chances are by the time you're TTC you won't feel as apprehensive?

#23 jules095

Posted 22 February 2012 - 01:15 PM

QUOTE (Jelly Bean 1988 @ 22/02/2012, 02:05 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
future self: my labout wasnt that bas only 5 hrs but has insude due to ruptured membranes so quite painfull
Sorry I don't understand. blink.gif

Do you mean you only had a 5hr labour, but due to ruptured membranes (your waters breaking), it was painful? That's what starts labour most of the time.

Really, you don't sound ready. If labour and birth is an issue, then like PP have said, you need to see a counsellor.

Right now, your baby is only 2mths old. Devote all your attention to him & enjoy him now, before you rush to have anymore.

#24 I'm Batman

Posted 22 February 2012 - 01:15 PM


Someone bop you on the head.

Id wait till I was ready..

#25 jill1972

Posted 22 February 2012 - 01:26 PM

Easy, just have an elective c section!!!   Then you won't have any pain to worry about in the first place.


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