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Posted 01 February 2012 - 11:41 AM

Hi all,
I had a d and c  on Dec 23, at 11 weeks (found out heart had stopped in week 10) was a  missed m/c. Will never forget that ultrasound.

Anyway, we TTC in first month after  but no luck. Had lots of spotting and higher than normal temps, so I  think preg hormones were still present and body bit out of whack after  trauma/changes. I had normal Ov (+opk) and also took a HPT half way  through the month to check was neg again. (I was actually pleased to see  that negative hpt. lol!) AF was normal and I am thankful for that.
So,  now body getting more back to normal again...time to try again! I know  how everyone feels on this forum it was the hardest thing ever...next AF  due on 16th Feb so got to get busy..got a huge pack of OPKs from online  to increase chances...

...any one else in similar situation?

#2 Tomate1910

Posted 01 February 2012 - 12:00 PM

Sorry for what happenend to you but yes there are quite a few of us!!! why dont you join us here: TTC#1 after miscarriage  I know it says TTC#1 but this is the only active group atm so feel free to join even if you TTC#2,3 or whatever original.gif

I am just 4dpo in my 3rd cycle after mmc & D&C FX

#3 acemummy

Posted 17 February 2012 - 02:25 PM

Hi Roroll,
yes I too am in the same situation, very similar to you.  I went to the hospital at 12 weeks and they found no heartbeat.  I had miscarried possibly at 9 weeks.  I had a D & C that same night.

I am ttc now too, and going to go check the thread superfruity mentioned.

Hi hope you get a BFP.gif really soon bbighug.gif

#4 juniper76

Posted 19 February 2012 - 06:46 PM

Yep, me too.  My d&c was 9 Jan and was at 11wks too.  Just finished the first AF after it and hoping for a sticky BFP.

I'm sorry to hear you're in the same situation.  I hope you have a happier ending to your next BFP.

#5 Libster

Posted 19 February 2012 - 07:03 PM

Hi there, I had a D & C 5 days after you, I was 6 weeks along. My first cycle since was 28 days but we didn't catch the egg that time, nor did we get it this cycle, I must have ovulated later than I thought I did.
I hope it happens for you soon original.gif are you tracking your temps?

#6 Blue cup

Posted 20 February 2012 - 07:10 PM

Hi ladies,  Im sorry to meet you here. Im in a similar situation myself. MMC at 9 weeks and discovered at 12 weeks. D&C in early November and now TTC again.
I joined the TTC#1 after miscarriage group that Superfruity mentioned, and I really enjoy the company. Please feel free to join us. Its a very supportive group and I like being able to share with other people who understand.
Hope to see you there, and best of luck!

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