Suck it up. Don't rock the boat. Don't make a scene.
Good on you for not buying into it and teaching your kids that they don't have to put up with harrassment just to keep everyone else happy.
It would have had a better effect if you could have done it without screaming but better that than being a mouse.
Totally agree with you BadCat, as for all those people who said she has over reacted, oh I would never act like that etc etc sorry cannot really say that because you were not in this particular situation, with all the other family issues that probably exist.
Walk a mile in someone elses shoes then you can make a comment with some substance.