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#1 mousier

Posted 13 December 2010 - 08:37 PM

Just want a bit of perspective as to whether I'm just being a prude,or this is kindo of weird wink.gif

I was at MIL and FIL's house today for my nephews 15th birthday. We were swimming in their pool when BIL's new girlfriend undressed to reveal she was wearing a wicked weasel bikini

http://wickedweasel.com/en-au

Thankfully it wasn't see through,and it was a bit more than a g-string,But i felt pretty uncomfortable.DH thinks I was jealous of the attention she was getting from the male relatives.

Maybe I was,but I still think it's weird to wear that around your boyfriends dad.

#2 Mumz to 3

Posted 13 December 2010 - 08:41 PM

hahaha you got to be kidding talk about no class lol

#3 Guest_Buy Me A Pony!_*

Posted 13 December 2010 - 08:41 PM

LOL. I used to get around in barely there bikinis. I really don't mind what other people wear as long as they're comfortable. And yes you are being a judgemental prude.

#4 lolz

Posted 13 December 2010 - 08:42 PM

ohmy.gif

Just NO.

#5 Guest_Starlet1809_*

Posted 13 December 2010 - 08:43 PM

The bikini tops look normal but the bottoms pretty much draw attention straight to... well. You know. And thats kinda gross.

Although to be honest I would probably be pretty happy wearing one if I had that body. Just maybe not in front of my FIL. blink.gif

#6 mousier

Posted 13 December 2010 - 08:43 PM

QUOTE (Buy Me A Pony! @ 13/12/2010, 08:41 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
LOL. I used to get around in barely there bikinis. I really don't mind what other people wear as long as they're comfortable. And yes you are being a judgemental prude.



laughing2.gif

But I (and her boyfriend's dad!)could SEE most of her ass! lmao

Edited by mousier, 13 December 2010 - 08:45 PM.


#7 lafonda

Posted 13 December 2010 - 08:44 PM

I would probably think she was a bit of a skank, but not the end of the world

#8 pingu82

Posted 13 December 2010 - 08:45 PM

Ewwwww!  No class whatsoever.  sick.gif

Looks like it would be very uncomfortable too!!

Edited by pingu82, 13 December 2010 - 08:46 PM.


#9 CountryBumpkin

Posted 13 December 2010 - 08:46 PM

Ergh how feral...

Yeah sure, at the beach, but around family?

#10 Guest_mummytomany_*

Posted 13 December 2010 - 08:46 PM

Wouldn't worry me.  She was swimming right?  different if she turned up at a restaurant in it but she was swimming.

#11 jazmum

Posted 13 December 2010 - 08:46 PM

I just hope she waxed before she wore it.

#12 Mumz to 3

Posted 13 December 2010 - 08:46 PM

QUOTE (bellygood @ 13/12/2010, 09:42 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
If she farted that thing would fly off like a kite! I don't want to see ANYONE'S jizzer thanks, so it's a NO from me! Get a room, people!


roll2.gif  roll2.gif  roll2.gif  roll2.gif

#13 DarkestNight

Posted 13 December 2010 - 08:46 PM

QUOTE (bellygood @ 13/12/2010, 08:42 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
If she farted that thing would fly off like a kite! I don't want to see ANYONE'S jizzer thanks, so it's a NO from me! Get a room, people!


roll2.gif

I too agree it's a little risque(sp?) for a family gathering....

#14 katpaws

Posted 13 December 2010 - 08:46 PM

I recently went to a work party that was themed. One of the girls rocked up as a prostitute (and no the theme was not gangsters and molls!) - she was a size 20 gal with her boobs literally hanging out of her top - to the extent you could almost see her nipples. She also had money stuffed in her top (maybe to protect her nipples??).

I thought, geeze work function wear has certainly changed since i last worked! And i am not a prude at all. I thought what she was wearing was more in line for a Saints and Sinners Ball than a work do.



#15 bernadette2221

Posted 13 December 2010 - 08:49 PM

QUOTE
And yes you are being a judgemental prude.


I don't think so.

I think it's ok for her to wear this to the beach or whatever with your BIL....(even if al the guys stare at her) but pretty inappropriate for a family BBQ.


When food is involved...you don't want to see any human flesh hanging out.. ohmy.gif

I went to a bbq once where this heavy guy had all of his stomach hanging out..put me right off the food.

#16 BugBiEz

Posted 13 December 2010 - 08:50 PM

QUOTE (jazmum @ 13/12/2010, 08:46 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I just hope she waxed before she wore it.


100% agree with that! I don't have a problem with it, probably give BIL a hi five later on too laughing2.gif

#17 Guest_Starlet1809_*

Posted 13 December 2010 - 08:52 PM

Just curious... did she have a rocking bod OP? Maybe she just has heaps of confidence and thought she looked awesome in it. Maybe its the only cossie she owned...

Or maybe she just likes the attention grin.gif

#18 vegiepatch

Posted 13 December 2010 - 08:52 PM

DP was just checking out that website. Said he liked it LOL

Not sure about wearing it to the family BBQ though!



#19 *Grumplestiltskin*

Posted 13 December 2010 - 08:52 PM

I have to say that seeing that would probably set me off into fits of inappropriate giggling like a schoolgirl.

Just watching everyone tying themselves in knots trying to gawk, while appearing not to, would be priceless.

#20 BadCat

Posted 13 December 2010 - 08:52 PM

Oh yuk.

Nobody should ever wear one of those.  Anywhere.  Ever.

I'm utterly fed up with seeing tits and a*se everywhere.

I think it's disgusting.



#21 Mumz to 3

Posted 13 December 2010 - 08:53 PM

QUOTE (bernadette2221 @ 13/12/2010, 09:49 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I don't think so.

I think it's ok for her to wear this to the beach or whatever with your BIL....(even if al the guys stare at her) but pretty inappropriate for a family BBQ.


When food is involved...you don't want to see any human flesh hanging out.. ohmy.gif

I went to a bbq once where this heavy guy had all of his stomach hanging out..put me right off the food.


yeah on a romantic getaway but not with your FIL and other family members gawking lol as stated lol

roll2.gif  roll2.gif about the fat guy with his gut hanging out

#22 namie

Posted 13 December 2010 - 08:53 PM

If I was as slim as the model in the link I *might* wear it on the beach or at the resort pool while on a romantic holiday with DP, but I definitely wouldn't wear it at a family BBQ in the backyard whether it was my own family or DPs!

My Dad definitely never needed to see as much of me as that revealed and I'd feel very wierd about FIL seeing so much!

Mind you, I've seen home video footage of the bikinis my mum and aunts used to wear in the 70s (when a curvier figure was popular) and, while they weren't quite so tiny in the front area, they were also quite skimpy for my taste!

QUOTE (jazmum @ 13/12/2010, 09:46 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I just hope she waxed before she wore it.

sick.gif  Me, too! She'd have needed a brazillian for sure!
Which automatically rules it out for as a swimwear option for me, even if I wasn't a size 16, lol!

#23 **Xena**

Posted 13 December 2010 - 08:54 PM

I don't think it's wrong, although certainly not something I would feel comfortable wearing wink.gif

To each their own. I actually find grown women referring to another woman as a skank etc a lot more offensive.

#24 Guest_pessi_*

Posted 13 December 2010 - 08:55 PM

I don't think the setting matters, the item of clothing is not more offensive because it was worn to a family BBQ. If anything, skankiness in full public like at the beach seems worse somehow. And as far as I read it, she stripped off for a swim, she didn't just show up for a BBQ wearing a tiny bikini...

If she feels she's got the body for it, I say go for it. Swimwear is not meant to be modest in any case - you're still seeing her entire a*se, whether it's covered in a large piece of lycra or a very small one.

#25 Tokra

Posted 13 December 2010 - 08:55 PM

Kind of a bit ewww to be honest lol




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