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Posted 08 January 2020 - 09:15 PM
I'm after any stories about vasectomy reversals. Anything!
We have 2 babes, DD 7yo and DS 4yo. My DH had the snip after quite a few 'scares' since DS (scares for him, not me). As soon as he walked out of the room my stomach hit the floor as I realised I actually really wasnt done having babies 😭
It has been a terrible year for us since, many arguments, depression and on the brink of separating. We have worked hard together recently and he has finally agreed to have it reversed (!!!) While I am over the moooooon, I am still really sad about whats happened over the last year, and terrified that he is going to change his mind in the time it takes to save up to have it done.
So anyway, thats my story. Im hoping for some stories about this. Positive tests, negative tests, time taken to conceive. Anything about the procedure and recovery. Cost involved would be good too. (We dont have private health) Also, if anyone happens to be in/near Melbourne and could tell me where to start looking, that would be brilliant.
Posted 08 January 2020 - 09:52 PM
Can’t help with the cost but my cousin had a reversal after marrying his 2nd wife and they have had 3 kids together since. Their first child together was conceived first try and the other 2 were pretty quick as well.
Posted 08 January 2020 - 10:03 PM
I think you need to measure cost and success ( method and length of time since done are big factors ) plus your age versus the success rate of Other fertility interventions like IVF.
of course there is bigger health ramifications for you if you pursue IVF .
its tough and success is not guaranteed and might put strain on a already fragile relationship .
Posted 08 January 2020 - 10:13 PM
I have a friend who repartnered with a guy who had already had a vasectomy. For them, they were were told IVF was more successful than a reversal. They had 3 babies, first 2 were quite easy and third one they had a miscarriage before becoming pregnant.
I too would want my relationship quite solid, particularly if needing to do down the IVF route as it can be quite stressful.
Posted 09 January 2020 - 08:38 AM
I’ve sent you a PM because I didn’t see this thread.
but for the benefit of anyone else in the same position (because I was trawling forms looking for the same advice)
My DH had his reversal in November, we’ve had one cycle TTC so far, currently on 2nd.
The recovery is painful, but once stitches were out normal function resumed almost straight away. He was snipped more than 10 years ago, so chances were on the lower side. We do know the flow has returned, waiting on test for the count.
we choose the clinic route, under sedation and local which was cheaper, $3k (NZD). It would have been $9k via a urologist and using general. We researched the doctor and his success rates before making the decision.
Posted 09 January 2020 - 10:05 AM
My BIL had a vasectomy after 2 then they decided to go back for another. Their research led them to choosing IVF rather than a reversal.
eta: it took them 3 cycles (and everything else involved with that, ie egg collection etc etc)
Edited by bearosauraus, 09 January 2020 - 10:05 AM.
Posted 09 January 2020 - 11:11 AM
Only one I know of wasn't successful. She was late thirties, he was early forties. Vasectomy done nearly ten years earlier.
Low sperm count afterwards, plus she was earlier to menopause than siblings, so probably a double whammy.
This was 30 years ago, early days of IVF, a route they chose not to take (both had kids separately).
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