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#26 AnotherSugar

Posted 24 July 2015 - 10:53 PM

We will find out but we won't tell anyone.  We found out with our first then announced at our shower but this time I'm telling everyone we decided on a surprise so I don't have to share.  We will have a name and start using it when we find out... I like to have that connection :)

#27 Happylilcamper

Posted 25 July 2015 - 05:23 PM

Finding out for sure!

#28 Jactom

Posted 25 July 2015 - 07:18 PM

I'm finding out via nipt I have it booked in for the 17/8 l really really want to know to prepare myself as we have 3 boys

#29 Morrissey1

Posted 27 July 2015 - 07:45 AM

Hmm I don't want to know but my husband does...

#30 Jaala

Posted 27 July 2015 - 10:00 AM

i will be finding out this time, first 2 were surprises and this time i want to be prepared

#31 monique88

Posted 27 July 2015 - 05:27 PM

This is our first and we've always said we wouldn't find out but then the day I told DH he was like 'when can we find out what we're having?' Lol. I still want a surprise though so we'll see

#32 MTMum

Posted 30 July 2015 - 04:15 PM

We didn't find out for our 1st. We are thinking we won't find out this time either. However, I feel slightly more tempted to find out this time!

#33 mummytomyboys

Posted 09 August 2015 - 08:18 AM

Nipt tests downs ect too the reason we picked it is because normal test has higher chance of false positive and this more accurate it's definitely personal choice I get why people don't do it but I'm 37 .

#34 mummytomyboys

Posted 27 August 2015 - 04:48 PM

So according to my nipt results in having a girl

#35 BlackButterfly

Posted 28 August 2015 - 03:24 PM

Congratulations! My NIPT results say I'm having a girl too!

I'm not going to go painting the walls pink or anything until the 20 weeks mark though.

#36 Tiish

Posted 28 August 2015 - 06:23 PM

Exciting news.  2 girls so far!   Still not sure if we will find out but it seems like AGES until my NIPT test anyway.

#37 mummytomyboys

Posted 29 August 2015 - 07:09 PM

Blackbutterfly I went and brought a bunch of pink now I'm paranoid it's not as I've got 3 boys .
Dr and hubby think I'm crazy going for gender scan at 17 weeks as they are certain it's a gitl

#38 BlackButterfly

Posted 29 August 2015 - 08:34 PM

I'm sure it will be a girl mummytomyboys! Don't be paranoid!

I'm just being cautious because my NIPT showed missing/defective X chromosomes, which turned out to be a problem with me rather than the baby. They couldn't confirm whether it was a girl or not to begin with, until I had further tests, so I'm still a bit wary or the result.

#39 mummytomyboys

Posted 30 August 2015 - 07:58 PM

Who did you do test through black butterfly ?

#40 BlackButterfly

Posted 30 August 2015 - 09:15 PM

It was the Percept test done through VCGS.


They were really helpful with genetic counselling when I got the positive result, which turned out to be an issue with me.

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