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Finally a bfp ......
And now I'm scared.....

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#1 lovebeingamum76

Posted 13 February 2013 - 07:23 PM

I am excited scared nervous and every other emotion there is! I so much want this baby but I am terrified of another ectopic... I only tested tonight and I am due for af on fri so early days but wanted to ask if ectopic can be tested this early?

#2 opethmum

Posted 13 February 2013 - 07:31 PM


Well done, I hope for a very boring pregnancy!!

#3 Fairey

Posted 13 February 2013 - 07:32 PM

I don't know, OP  shrug.gif  (MMC prior to DD, no experience with ectopic)


Congratulations  happy.gif
Wishing you a healthy and happy pregnancy x

#4 mummygirl

Posted 13 February 2013 - 08:21 PM

Congrats OP. I hope this pregnancy is smooth x

#5 againagain

Posted 13 February 2013 - 10:31 PM

I think (I don't know for sure though!) that you could have an ultrasound about 5.5 weeks and you should be able to see the sac somewhere. I had an ultrasound at 5w6d for suspected ectopic and you could see the sac, baby and a very tiny heartbeat. I would assume even a couple of days earlier they would be able to see that the sac is correctly positioned.

Good luck with it!

#6 Minxybug

Posted 13 February 2013 - 10:54 PM

After my ectopic I was feeling very much the same way. I had my BHCG bloods done every couple of days (3 collections) and saw the levels rising. I also had a scan done at 6 weeks to confirm that baby was in the uterus and was also away from the old ceaser scar.

As you can see all has gone well and we are waiting for our precious baby to join us soon.

Hoping all goes well for you.

#7 Wildence

Posted 13 February 2013 - 11:04 PM


I was super scared and nervous too during my 1st trimester, and was getting my blood done every week till about week 8.

I would suggest doing HCG blood tests and an early scan as well.
Hope this pregnancy goes well for you,

#8 lovebeingamum76

Posted 14 February 2013 - 06:11 AM

Thanks ladies.... So nervous this pregnancy is not going to end well. Staying positive! Will call ob today to see when he wants to see me.:-) too scared to join a due in group....

#9 Rolex

Posted 14 February 2013 - 06:58 AM

No ectopic, but 3 miscarriages before this pregnancy, so I understand the fear very well.

I really hope all goes well for you this time original.gif  Congratulations!

#10 lovebeingamum76

Posted 14 February 2013 - 08:46 AM

Think it's going to be the quickest preg I have had! Tested again this morn and 2 more positives but the lines were lighter then last night. Now I have some spotting. I am due for af tomorrow so I think I will get it and miscarry!

#11 Wildence

Posted 15 February 2013 - 12:57 AM

Awww... how are you??

#12 lovebeingamum76

Posted 15 February 2013 - 05:05 AM

Hi ladies

So far still all good...I thought for sure i was going to get AF yesterday morning even though i got my BFP. I am worried the tests arnt getting darker they are staying the same.I am hoping that the fact i tested 2 days before AF is due at night time and it came up pos is a good thing???? I would normally do FMU but for some reason i just though i would test.

I am due for AF today! Only 4 weeks.....Its going to be a longgggggg pregnancy lol.I will be happy for 5-6 weeks so i can see bub is ok then i will be able to enjoy my LAST pregnancy.

thanks again for the replies....

#13 Wildence

Posted 15 February 2013 - 03:42 PM

Good news!!
fingers crossed for you!

I would suggest going to your DR and get the blood test done and then see if you can do it every week or so, to see if HCG is going up.

#14 lovebeingamum76

Posted 17 February 2013 - 10:35 AM

Off to see my OB on we'd..... He will do a scan in his office. I am so nervous. I don't want to hear sorry I can't see anything it's another ectopic....

Off to keep busy till we'd lol

#15 Wildence

Posted 17 February 2013 - 11:56 PM

Good luck!!

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