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#1 tillysmummabear

Posted 10 February 2013 - 06:55 PM

Hi im ttc my second child im 13 days late gor my period
The hpt are coming up negative and my bloods came back
With less then 2 hcg level i dont know whqt to do im going out of
My mind please help with advice or ideas on what to do  sad.gif

#2 Iliketoflounce

Posted 10 February 2013 - 06:59 PM

Are you sure you got Ovulation date correct?

#3 tillysmummabear

Posted 10 February 2013 - 07:08 PM

Yes my period is always on time on a 28 day cycle if its lat eots only ever a day late
My last period wa son the 3rd of january to the 9th of january which would put my next one
At the 28th of january

#4 Iliketoflounce

Posted 10 February 2013 - 07:13 PM

QUOTE (tillysmummabear @ 10/02/2013, 07:08 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Yes my period is always on time on a 28 day cycle if its lat eots only ever a day late
My last period wa son the 3rd of january to the 9th of january which would put my next one
At the 28th of january

YOur period all depends on when you ovulate sometimes ovulation can be late due to lifestyle and stress and other reasons do you chart or take note on your ovulation. I use to have a 28 day cycle now if im lucky it is 29 days

Edited by Minnieme4me, 10 February 2013 - 07:14 PM.

#5 tillysmummabear

Posted 10 February 2013 - 07:16 PM

No i dont chart i dont know how to i just cout 28 days from firat day of last period

#6 Iliketoflounce

Posted 10 February 2013 - 07:20 PM

QUOTE (tillysmummabear @ 10/02/2013, 07:16 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
No i dont chart i dont know how to i just cout 28 days from firat day of last period

you can't always rely on that um to you get any CM or pain around the middleish of your cycle

#7 Iliketoflounce

Posted 10 February 2013 - 07:35 PM

how did you know with your 1st did you know when you ovulated?

#8 tillysmummabear

Posted 10 February 2013 - 07:37 PM

About 2 days in i get alot of pain

#9 Iliketoflounce

Posted 10 February 2013 - 07:40 PM

two days into you period is normal period pain

#10 Iliketoflounce

Posted 10 February 2013 - 07:48 PM

you would be 5 weeks if you were pg blood tests and hpt's should be saying positive

#11 tillysmummabear

Posted 10 February 2013 - 07:51 PM

Ok .... im new at this my first baby just happened this one were trying i dont know about ovulation charys or anything loke that thats why im asking for help

#12 Iliketoflounce

Posted 10 February 2013 - 08:00 PM

For help you are in the correct place original.gif sorry if I seemed harsh at all

the easiest way to track Ovulation is with opks and charting. Learning body signs as well such as Cervical mucus and the difference with pains

A good place to get more help is in a buddy groups

TTC #2 buddy group

if you decide on charting this group

or if you want a ver fast group with everyone who is ttc baby #1-#20 this group

#13 tillysmummabear

Posted 10 February 2013 - 08:07 PM

Thats ok im 23 anhave no idea how to do this everyone is ising abbreviations and i just dont get any of it like whats ttw and af im so confused

#14 Iliketoflounce

Posted 10 February 2013 - 08:10 PM


the abbreviations for you original.gif I find my self getting a bit sharp towards people sometimes I think i have been ttc for too long

#15 tillysmummabear

Posted 10 February 2013 - 08:13 PM

Lol its veary hard i tried. For 18 months last time then fell ill its only been 4 months this time

#16 tillysmummabear

Posted 10 February 2013 - 08:15 PM

Thanks for that rawr

#17 Iliketoflounce

Posted 10 February 2013 - 08:17 PM

I have been ttc #1 for 20something months

#18 tillysmummabear

Posted 10 February 2013 - 08:21 PM

Thats hard i hope you have some succes soon

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