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#1 MooGuru

Posted 03 February 2013 - 09:25 PM

Sorry. I've deleted as don't want family to recognise and because the answers already received reinforce what I already know.


Edited by MooGuru, 03 February 2013 - 09:45 PM.

#2 kadoodle

Posted 03 February 2013 - 09:30 PM

Nothing you can do, I'm afraid, beyond keeping walking with them.

#3 fancie shmancie

Posted 03 February 2013 - 09:30 PM

You keep your mouth shut, that's what you do.

Their weight, their health, their business, not yours.

#4 76 others

Posted 03 February 2013 - 09:31 PM

You can't do anything. People will only change when they want to.

#5 shelly1

Posted 03 February 2013 - 09:32 PM

Your intentions are good. Unfortunately I think you are going to get a bit of a slamming, by some people.

My experience is that you can't make people change if they don't want to. You may just have to wait until they seek you out. If you have a child the same age as theirs maybe he/she could join in with any after school activities you do but as far as the adults go any well meaning help/advice by you will be probably taken the wrong way

#6 ~Sorceress~

Posted 03 February 2013 - 09:37 PM

Sorry, all you can do is offer them healthy food when they visit and accompany them on more walks sad.gif .

It hurts to see people you like / live not taking care of themselves, but it's their choice sad.gif.

#7 becstar101

Posted 03 February 2013 - 09:41 PM

Not much you can do. I'd say they are probably aware that it's a problem (despite what they may say) and are not reay to change things.

#8 cinnabubble

Posted 03 February 2013 - 09:41 PM

You don't say anything.

#9 Prioritising Pooks

Posted 03 February 2013 - 09:42 PM

Just because they don't acknowledge it to you, doesn't mean they don't acknowledge it.

Eta. What are they meant to say? Gee we are all fatties?

Edited by Pooks_, 03 February 2013 - 09:43 PM.

#10 Franny and Zooey

Posted 03 February 2013 - 09:49 PM

Why is it your place to say something?

Unless the are pretty stupid the walk probably gave them an indication things aren't right.

#11 MooGuru

Posted 03 February 2013 - 09:53 PM


Edited by MooGuru, 03 February 2013 - 09:54 PM.

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