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#1 blackbird

Posted 19 January 2013 - 10:38 AM

Hi all,

I'm not really trying to get a bfp but.. last cycle was the 1st after merina removal and we tried to do the rhythm method but thought I o'd early but it turns out I may have o'd twice (two lots of o pains and egg-white CM with about a 2 day gap) so I figured we mucked up that cycle and did the deed anyway (its not at all a bad thing to get a bfp just a bit tricky with going to uni etc and well, might have to let the BF move in! lol)

Anyway! I have been testing everyday (cant help myself) and this morning I got a bfp, the line is kind of faint and a bit broken but its there clearly, tested with a test from ebay that looks like the type you get from the doc, the flat plastic ones, I tried one of those 2 days ago, negitive, so I can see the differance.

Went to the gym for a class and picked up a 1st response and tested approx 1.5 hours after the 1st, got a BFN, wondering if the 1st is faulty or it was because I used 1st morning urine?

I am 1 day before AF due, however pre merina I had 30 day cycles and my normal cycle started with this last one so I have nothing to compare, I know time will tell but.. I'm so impatient.

Edited by blackbird, 20 January 2013 - 12:23 PM.


#2 blackbird

Posted 19 January 2013 - 11:31 AM

So what do think? rush out and get more and test again today? just wait and test tomorrow? 1st test faulty or the second test is? argh I'm such a dag :s original.gif

maybe I should put this in POAS addicts lol

#3 Natttmumm

Posted 19 January 2013 - 11:37 AM

I would get another early pregnancy test and wait until first morning urine again tomorrow.
Good luck.

#4 Bazinga

Posted 19 January 2013 - 11:41 AM

Get another first response and test again with FMU

Good luck original.gif

#5 namie

Posted 19 January 2013 - 11:45 AM

I'd get another First Response and test with first morning urine tomorrow.

I did a pregnancy test before Christmas (a Thursday, the day before my period was due) and got a positive, did another the next day 'just to be sure' and got a negative. Did a third the following day and got another positive. I booked in with the GP but did a fourth test the morning of my appointment (the following Wednesday) 'just to be really sure' and it was positive.

When I told her she laughed and said I could have just gone on the very first one as they're never false positive. She said they can be a false negative but in her experience she has never heard of anyone getting a false positive.

Good luck!

#6 blackbird

Posted 19 January 2013 - 11:52 AM

lol congrates namie, that is a positive thing to hear original.gif

I had been told by doctors that there aren't any false positives too but I have heard other posters mention something about  a chemical positive?

I actually really hope I am, I just don't want the disappointment.

My hands were shaking looking at that fainting but clear line original.gif

#7 caninestorm

Posted 19 January 2013 - 01:40 PM

Yes try another FRER - if you don't want to wait for FMU you can limit liquid and wait 4-5 hours before peeing and it should work.

My GP laughed when I said my lines were getting lighter, too. She wasn't laughing when I was back in there a few days later because I had had a chemical pg and AF had started. I hope that's not the case for you but unfortunately chemicals are very common.

#8 pixii

Posted 19 January 2013 - 02:18 PM

I would get another FR and try again late this evening after holding off to go to the toilet for a few hours or use FMU tomorrow but if your like me I get up to go to the toilet 3 times a night anyway so is useless for me lol  Good luck I hope it is a BFP

#9 blackbird

Posted 19 January 2013 - 02:39 PM

I recon I will get a 3 pack, hold on till bursting then try again today and twice tomorrow original.gif

#10 pixii

Posted 19 January 2013 - 04:26 PM

sounds like a good idea the 3 pack at chemist wharehouse is like $14 and the single is $10 so better value for money getting the 3 pack  wink.gif

#11 *melrose*

Posted 19 January 2013 - 05:00 PM

Good Luck OP!

#12 blackbird

Posted 19 January 2013 - 10:04 PM

Thank you all so much for your support, so many lovely people, I told my BF this morning about the positive and he was happy but I told him then not to get too excited, I then told him about the negatives and he was like "stop messing with my head" and I was like I told you we might not know for certain for a few days yet and he said I know but you were excited and I got excited lol

Fingers crossed for tomorrow.

#13 erindiv

Posted 19 January 2013 - 10:28 PM

False positives don't tend to happen but you can get evaporation lines.

I always had better results with non FMU, for some reason!

Good luck for tomorrow OP.

#14 FomoJnr

Posted 20 January 2013 - 07:54 AM

ph34r.gif for an update OP!

Good luck original.gif

#15 Lady Lovely Locks

Posted 20 January 2013 - 08:21 AM

Good luck OP!

#16 blackbird

Posted 20 January 2013 - 12:22 PM

Well tested again this morning.. BFN sad.gif

And just to make it hit home, AF arrived too..  sad.gif

Very disappointed, not buying those HPT's again that's for sure! never had a false positive before, neither has anyone I heard of other then here and I was thinking it had something to do with fertility aids.

I didn't realize how much I wanted it to be a BFP and how in my head I had already planned what I would do re uni, car, space in the house etc, and then the potential feeling of guilt if I was pregnant so quick after reading about other peoples long journeys with TTC ..
And the feeling I'm selfish for wanting a BFP..

Oh well, I do over think things.

Thank you all for your support and interest.

#17 *melrose*

Posted 20 January 2013 - 12:49 PM

Sorry OP maybe next month, take care. original.gif

#18 k-lo

Posted 20 January 2013 - 01:18 PM

Don't feel bad about over thinking it! We have only just decided we're going to TTC this year, I still have my Implanon in, and I've already made a list of names; worried about when I have to tell work and started thinking about maternity clothes!
I thank all the ladies here who give me a dose of reality and I keep having to remind myself it could take a month or a lot, lot longer...

#19 MrsW87

Posted 20 January 2013 - 01:22 PM

Sorry that AF arrived OP sad.gif I still haven't gotten mine and am still getting either faint BFP's or negatives with these tests... I will use them until they are gone but I won't buy them again.


#20 blackbird

Posted 20 January 2013 - 09:54 PM

thanks ladies original.gif its so good to know support is out there.

good luck C~D~W~H hope AF doesn't visit original.gif

k-lo- your kind of thinking is the good kind original.gif

I am just going to look at this as an opportunity to get fitter and healthier before I conceive (could lose a couple kilos at least and get stronger).

AND it would be better to wait so I can at least get this 1st year of uni out of the way original.gif

Wouldn't it be nice if I could have a bub during the xmas break wink.gif lol wishful thinking, me thinks we might just let it happen if it happens and not think so much about it (maybe wishful thinking)





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