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Eden was supposes to join us tomorrow


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#1 Fillyjonk

Posted 07 December 2012 - 01:58 PM

...But instead he is in a box in the ground on the other side of the world with a couple of silly little toys that he will never see, let alone play with. I thought I was okay. I thought I had moved past the raw grief but I can't stop crying today and no doubt tomorrow.

To make it all that bit crueller, my period is also due tomorrow so now I am dealing with all the premenstrual symptoms that tell me that I am not pregnant again.

#2 FeralSis

Posted 07 December 2012 - 02:01 PM

I'm so sorry that Eden will not be joining your family tomorrow.

Take care...

#3 CocobeanLillylove

Posted 07 December 2012 - 02:05 PM

It's not fair at all

#4 Alyx

Posted 07 December 2012 - 02:06 PM

I'm so sorry, please be kind to yourself.

#5 WithSprinkles

Posted 07 December 2012 - 02:08 PM

I'm sorry for your loss sad.gif

#6 Riotproof

Posted 07 December 2012 - 02:16 PM

Thinking of you, and feeling much the same. I didn't realise our due dates were the same.

Edited by Riotproof, 07 December 2012 - 02:16 PM.


#7 Feral_RosieC

Posted 07 December 2012 - 02:33 PM

With the goo goose and Riot: I am so sorry for your loss.

#8 kadoodle

Posted 07 December 2012 - 02:38 PM

With The Goo Goose and Riotproof, I'm so sorry for both your losses.  I can't imagine the pain you must been feeling, please take care.

#9 flyingfree

Posted 07 December 2012 - 11:40 PM

With the goo goo and Riotproof, thinking of you both as you approach your due dates today.

It's never an easy day, take one hour at a time to to remember your precious babies and if you are up it do something special like release balloons or scatter rose petals at the beach or visit a special place.

My due date for Skye was last week so know hard heartbreaking it is for you today, all my plans ended up ruined, couldn't visit her or release balloons due to bad storms and organised to get my tattoo and the receptionist booked it for this month sad.gif

Sending you both my love today

Mandy

#10 Guest_Sunnycat_*

Posted 08 December 2012 - 05:10 PM

I'm so sorry for both of your losses With the Goo Goose and Riotproof sad.gif

#11 Hoping4a2012baby

Posted 09 December 2012 - 09:48 AM

Goo goo and Riotproof, I am so sorry that you do not have your babies with you in your arms.

My due date has passed recently too & I miss my babies so so very much.  Watching people around me enjoying their newborns just throws acid into the wounds.

I wish you much peace & love within your families as you face this inevitably lonely Christmas.

Lots of love.

xxx




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