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#1 Hayleymumof3

Posted 04 December 2012 - 05:44 AM

This blog piece was brought to my attention by a friend and it has to be one of the most disgusting vile pieces I have ever read.

http://boldanddetermined.com/2012/11/29/ho...meet-shy-girls/



#2 Fr0g

Posted 04 December 2012 - 05:55 AM

Another outdated, sexist piece about good girls vs bad girls...?

The blogger' clearly a goose, but the piece didn't register on my outrage-o-meter.

'Tis the good, bad & the ugly of the interwebz in modern times.

#3 QueenOfTheDesert

Posted 04 December 2012 - 05:56 AM

How on earth did you stumble across that pearl?!

#4 Hayleymumof3

Posted 04 December 2012 - 05:57 AM

QUOTE
How on earth did you stumble across that pearl?!


A friend of mine showed me earlier this morning.

#5 Missy Shelby

Posted 04 December 2012 - 06:02 AM

TBH I didn't find it disgusting, disturbing yes, disgusting no.

I sure there are more vile blogs on the internet (thank goodness I have never read them, never will).

Wasn't nice clicking on that link first thing in the morning.

#6 Berndt Tőst

Posted 04 December 2012 - 06:03 AM

Oh, no beware the sarcastic, ironic type! Say something silly then run if she doesn't giggle! rolleyes.gif

I don't mean to be facetious, OP, but I've already lived most of what they're talking about there so I'm not as shocked as you.

I've been the type of shy girl they're talking about, and you do attract a*s*holes who want to push you around.

#7 Hayleymumof3

Posted 04 December 2012 - 06:13 AM

QUOTE
I've been the type of shy girl they're talking about, and you do attract a*s*holes who want to push you around.


I am a shy girl.  If he had posted a relatively harmless post about dating a shy girl it would have been fine but his constant use of derogative terms is what has me up in arms and the insinuation that we are barely able to string two thoughts together without a big strong man is well insulting.

#8 papilio

Posted 04 December 2012 - 06:15 AM

Sounds like it's written by someone who doesn't get laid very often...

#9 harryboy

Posted 04 December 2012 - 06:25 AM

Look around the article at the other stuff on the page - the guy is a tosser extraordinaire!

#10 TheWanderer

Posted 04 December 2012 - 06:28 AM

Welcome to the internet.  Where any idiot can publish any garbage.  If you get wound up about every bit of on-line content like that, you will end up in an early grave.... Click the X in the top right of screen and it goes away.

#11 Berndt Tőst

Posted 04 December 2012 - 06:29 AM

Or old tossers with mail order brides.

#12 Chchgirl

Posted 04 December 2012 - 06:49 AM

Who would touch that guy with a 40 foot pole anyway? Looks like a tosser..

#13 morgansacre

Posted 04 December 2012 - 06:59 AM

I just read this guys article to DH and DD. DH thinks he is a wan*er and DD thinks its disgusting, as do I. I hate the last bit he writes...that to me is scary...as a shy person this whole thing seems very predatory.

But like it has been previously said, clicking on the little x makes me feel better Tounge1.gif

Lynn

#14 HRH Countrymel

Posted 04 December 2012 - 07:05 AM

QUOTE (papilio @ 04/12/2012, 07:15 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Sounds like it's written by someone who doesn't get laid very often...



QUOTE (Mo2k @ 04/12/2012, 07:26 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
This just reminds me of womens magazines and their 'how to get a (insert type) man' but from a male perspective, more extreme and badly written. He is sad though. But not as sad as the losers who subscribe to it! Probably a bunch of spotty, greasy teenagers.



It actually reads to me as if it were written by a young boy without any 'field experience' in the world of male female interaction.

#15 sarkazm76

Posted 04 December 2012 - 07:11 AM

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A shy girl may very well want to go slow. She will need to comfortable around you. She’ll say “I’m not ready“, “You’re too fast“, or “Can we take it slower?” and you’ll sure “absolutely. I understand“. There are two types of women who say things like this. Genuinely shy girls and used-up ex whores who are trying to trap a man. A genuine shy girl is, ahem, shy and doesn’t want to get naked and grunt like an animal for fear of being embarrassed. A used-up ex-whore is playing a game with you.

Your job is to TEST the shy girl and make sure she is true to her word. If she says “I want to wait” but then lets you ram her 12 minutes later you know she isn’t a “good girl” and you can start your search again. If she rebuffs all your charming advances you know you probably have a good girl on your hands. To test her you must touch her. Always touch, touch, touch. When she says “I want to go slow” you will say “Yes, I understand” but you will always be trying to get in. The more she resists the better she is. If she can resist a suave gentleman such as yourself that is near proof she is resisting every Joe Cool and Suave Johnny that comes long.


He then goes onto talk about how you should just keep touching her and getting her as turned on as possible over and over again cause the man is the hunter.   sick.gif
Yep I find that worrying.

#16 Unatheowl

Posted 04 December 2012 - 07:19 AM

People think things all the time that would probably disgust you.  Men and women alike.  This guy just happened to write it all down on the Internet. Don't punish yourself by reading it.

#17 Mitis angelam

Posted 04 December 2012 - 07:22 AM

"Gentleman caveman"?!  I think he can drop the "gentleman"!

#18 Chchgirl

Posted 04 December 2012 - 07:24 AM

Men like that remind me why I will stay single forever now ... wink.gif

#19 Guest_~Songbird~_*

Posted 04 December 2012 - 07:32 AM

This is for men that want a doormat that will cook clean and do what ever they want/need. Hello 1950's and clinical depression for the girl as she suppresses her real feelings for fear of being rejected (or hit/yelled at).

#20 melajoe

Posted 04 December 2012 - 07:33 AM

I should have stopped reading after the first sentence.  I knew it, but I didn't.

I definitely should not have read the comments!

#21 fruitbat72

Posted 04 December 2012 - 07:53 AM

Bleagh  rant.gif

Check out Destroy the Joint instead (on FB) or Google Matilda.com.au. It will make you feel better

#22 Hayleymumof3

Posted 04 December 2012 - 07:58 AM

QUOTE
Check out Destroy the Joint instead


I am with them already.

#23 kpingitquiet

Posted 04 December 2012 - 08:12 AM

I generally find it best to avoid any man who thinks of himself in terms of animals. Specifically wolf-packs hunter lions, and and really any form of bear other than "teddy". Generally, these dudes are either took so many steroids that their brains and balls are of similar size, or they live in their mothers' basements. Or maybe both?

#24 Mama8

Posted 04 December 2012 - 08:14 AM

meh i dont see a problem with it.
If thats what he is looking for then good luck to him.

My grandmother used to say "men are looking for 2 types of women in their life, the ones they can fool around with and the ones they will marry and take home to their mothers"
hehehe i was the marry and take home to his mother type biggrin.gif

This guy obvisously has an ideal woman in mind and im sure he will find one eventually.

As for destroy the joint, what a bunch of feminist nazis!
what is wrong with a woman that WANTS to cook and clean and take care of her man??


#25 Oriental lily

Posted 04 December 2012 - 08:19 AM

I am naturally shy person.

Iam nothing like those girls described lol. Just ask DH.

Mail order bride agencies promote their girls just the same. This is nothing new.

It's says more about the type of men wanting a partner like this. Chauvinistic pigs.

I personally know no men like this.

Oh except probably my own father to a certain degree.




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