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Pregnant after miscarriages and chemicals


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#1 Chasing*Rainbows

Posted 24 November 2012 - 06:35 PM

Hi Ladies

Sorry if this is in the wrong place but I'm wondering if there is a group or how we can make one for ladies like myself who have just gotten a BFP but are too scared to join a "Due in Group", due to a history of early miscarriages and chemical pregnancies?

I'm terrified I'll test and get a negative test soon after days of positives and I'm not ready to declare on a ticker that "I'm due on", or join a "I'm due in" group just yet. I might be ready in 2 weeks or 2 months but surely there's a place I can fit where I'm not upsetting people that are still TTC or surrounded by ladies that are not in the same place as me (eg not terrifed every second of every day that they'll start to bleed etc). Not meant to offend anyone that is pregnant as I'm looking forward to joining a group soon, just not yet.

So if there is a group can you point me in the direction or at least tell me where I can get a group made up. Surely I'm not the only lady on here who's been newly pregnant and terrified and would like people to chat to until we get to the stage that we're comfortable to declare the big news?

Thanks

Christine

Edited by learningasIgo, 24 November 2012 - 06:45 PM.


#2 Iliketoflounce

Posted 24 November 2012 - 06:59 PM

maybe post this in the messages to mods section but if there is I would so join when I get a bfp

#3 Caramel Latte

Posted 24 November 2012 - 07:04 PM

Preg after M/c - PAM

There is, not sure if link worked but its in Specialised Preg section and is PAM. Tad quiet in there at moment.

Good luck.

#4 Caramel Latte

Posted 24 November 2012 - 07:08 PM

There is also one for those pg with #1 after m/c

Pg with #1 after M/c

Good luck to all

#5 Chasing*Rainbows

Posted 24 November 2012 - 07:09 PM

Hi Desireee I checked in that section and noticed how quite it is which is why I posted here to see if there were any others.

Minnieme4me I'll do as you suggested and post a message to the mods.

Thanks ladies.


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