Parenting

Bad parents' blog

Public or Private Hospital for the birth: WDYT?

eb-hospital-bed-90x60

JUSTINE DAVIES I could be several thousand dollars out of pocket by going private – money that I could otherwise use for my maternity leave. Is it really worth that cost or should I think about going public instead?

Bad parents' blog

Could my son be gay?

eb-boy-toddler-dressups-90x60

JUSTINE DAVIES He has always been a very gentle kid and prefers playing with his sister’s dolls house and dress ups than kicking a ball. DH worries that he will get picked on at school as he gets older.

Bad parents' blog

Piercing my three-year-old's ears?

eb-toddler-ear-peirced-90x60

JUSTINE DAVIES Apart from the risk of infection, which is a risk at any age, there is also a higher risk with young children that they could tear their earlobe.

Bad parents' blog

Is 22 too young to be a Mum?

couple spending time together

JUSTINE DAVIES DH isn’t sure. He thinks we should buy a house first and he also worries that none of our friends have kids yet or are probably even close to starting a family.

Bad parents' blog

Private to public: should my son change schools?

Save money preparing your child for school

JUSTINE DAVIES DH says if he wants to go to the public school he can, but I’m resisting the idea. Not that the state school is bad, but I think that he’d get a better education at the private school.

Bad parents' blog

Should I hire a nanny or a 'manny'?

Video games

JUSTINE DAVIES My issue is that out of the potential nannies that I’ve interviewed, the one that I like the most is a male! I don’t know whether having a “Manny” is a good idea?

Bad Parents' blog

Sex, Birth & Videotape

Orgasmic birth

JUSTINE DAVIES My hubby recently bought a new digital video recorder so that we can record our daughter’s development over the years on film. All good. He’s now decided though that he also wants to videotape the birth.

Bad Parents' blog

Eeeek – I don't want their son living with us!

eb-mother-scoulding-son

JUSTINE DAVIES A couple of months ago friends asked us if we would be guardian for their son if something happened to them

Bad parents' blog

I’m a single mum with a new boyfriend. Should I let him sleep over?

Sex after baby

JUSTINE DAVIES It’s a tricky predicament – the roles of sex goddess and Mum aren’t all that easy to combine.

Bad parents' blog

I'm 'accidentally' pregnant

Are you trying to conceive?

JUSTINE DAVIES I have a problem that I hope your members can help me with. I guess you could call it a “miscommunication” – and now I don’t know what to do.

More of Justine Davies' blogs

Help: My middle child nightmare VB vs Caesarean: what should I do? How to afford a husband

From the men

I don't find my wife sexy anymore

The an unexpected side-effect of having our daughter though is that it has killed my sexual desire for my wife – something which neither of us can really understand.

Bad Parents' blog

Can you convince me to breastfeed?

JUSTINE DAVIES I would love to know if there are any others who dreaded breastfeeding beforehand but who found it not too bad – or even nice!

Bad parents' blog

Is it permissible to breastfeed a friend's baby?

JUSTINE DAVIES A few weeks ago my friend left her daughter with me for an hour while she went to the supermarket. Almost as soon as she left her daughter woke up and was obviously hungry, so I breastfed her.

Bad Parents' Blog

Should I get breast implants?

JUSTINE DAVIES Did your body undergo significant change as a result of pregnancy and breastfeeding? Would you consider breast implants to get your pre-baby boobs back?